Ladies, you need to know that talking dirty to your man can be one of the most exciting things that you ever do. If the entire thought makes you feel a bit intimidated, rest assured that it doesn’t have to be intimidating. In fact, once you try it a few times you’ll wonder how you ever did without it. Sharing dirty talk is very healthy and can lead to much improved intimacy. So let’s get started. Are you ready to talk dirty?

Here are some tips that will help you ease into talking dirty with your man.

The first piece of advice I have is to sit down with him and have an open and honest conversation about the fact that you want to try using erotic talk in your lovemaking. This will break the ice and warm him up to the subject. You should both discuss what words would be fun to use, and what words would best be avoided. I have a feeling you’ll be surprised by his reaction in a good way!

Now that you are about to use dirty talk, do your best to relax. Take a deep breath, and just let the words flow naturally. You don’t want to sound rushed or forced. Do your best to avoid clinical terms. You may want to expand your sexy vocabulary, so know that it is okay to watch an adult movie to get some ideas. Practicing beforehand is also recommended if you’re new to using erotic talk.

So many couples are already using this type of talk to enhance their sex life. So try talking dirty to your man and you’ll be amazed at how hot sex can be!