When talking about giving your lover an orgasm, most “sex gurus” go right to between her legs. Because obviously there’s some hidden buttons down there that are holding you back from being the sex god you dream of being…

Yeah, right.

Hidden buttons and smooth moves are all well and good… but what they fail to mention is the most important key to having your lover orgasm…

Her mind.

If you can’t turn on a woman’s mind, you can’t make her orgasm… it’s as simple as that.

Think about the groupies of rock stars. You think rock stars are that great in bed? Sure, they’ve got the experience, but since another groupie will walk through the door in 5 minutes… do they really care about pleasuring them?

But these girls rave about the sex they have with rock stars… why? Because of the emotions they’re feeling at the time. All the great techniques fly out the window when you can make a woman feel the right emotions during sex.

Now maybe you don’t want to act like a misbehaving rock star, but you can learn from what’s going on and create the same emotions in your lover.

First, the girl has built up an incredible fantasy around this rock star. She’s been going over this moment in her head for months, if not years. You too can get your lover fantasising by promising her a surprise and not telling her what it is… all day she’ll be wondering what you’ve got in store for her.

This also creates a feeling of anticipation in your lover… the same a groupie feels for her rock star. She knows something special is coming and can’t wait.

Not to mention the emotional rollercoaster that a groupie goes through. Will she get backstage? Will she get to meet him? And will he pick her? There’s a huge amount of drama being created.

You can mimic this as well by teasing your lover. Take her out to play mini-golf, then start “helping” her with her swing (making it sexual), then go to dinner (but play footsies under the table), then arrive home where you light candles throughout the bedroom (impending sex!), then bring out some massage oils and give her a massage.

By creating, then releasing the sexual tension all night, your lover will be begging to rip your clothes off. And yes, this should be continued all the way through foreplay… don’t jump on the “good stuff,” tease her by taking two steps forward, one step back.

I hope this brief article has shown you how important stimulating a woman’s mind is and how you can easily achieve great results in your own sex life. Now go out and have some fun with it.