When we hear about low libido in a relationship, normally we assume it is the problem of females. The fact is men account for about over 30% of total low libido cases. As a woman, you still can do something to overcome his lack of sex drive. Men (same as women) love oral sex. If you are looking for ways to drive him wild in bed, here are the tips on oral sex you can start with.

(1) Get him clean up first

Whether giving or receiving oral sex, both have to be comfortable. This will not be possible if either one of you has certain strong smell. It will be good if your man cleans himself first. Better if both have a sexy bath or shower together.

(2) Keep yourself comfortable

If you are not in a physically comfortable lovemaking position, you will not be able to give him a good blowjob. If he is standing or sitting, to give you a lot of space for movement, you can either sit on a stool or kneel on a pillow.

(3) Touching the surrounding areas

You can either give him a cat bath (that is to use your mouth to kiss him all over) and/or use your hands to “molest” his inner thighs, testicles and perineum (the area between the base of genitals and anus) which are all sensitive spots in order to gradually get him into the mood. To increase the sensation, you can use your fingertips to tickle behind the testicles.

(4) Start licking him

You begin by warming the tip of his genitals with your breath. There are a few sensitive areas of the male genitals for you to take note. The tip or the head of the genitals is more sensitive than the shaft, especially the rim around the head. The underside is more sensitive than the side especially at the area near to the tip (known as the frenulum). To be effective, you should focus your licking effort on these sensitive spots.

(5) You take his genitals into your mouth

After you play with the head, you slide your mouth down the shaft while you place your hand at the base of his genitals (to form a ring around the lower end). This is to prevent you from getting choked if you accidentally take in too much of his “ice-cream stick”. You should take in between one-third to half of the shaft. With your teeth hiding behind your lips, you squeeze your lips against his shaft as you glide up and down along his semi-erected male hood. Do this slowly at times, savoring the pleasure of your action, and then picking up the speed.

(6) Alternating between mouth and tongue action

Once in a while, you switch back to using your tongue to lick on his tip and frenulum. You can experiment with the different types of licks on these two areas probably by changing the shape or movement of your tongue. To give him more intense pleasure, you can also twist your neck left and right so that it feels like your mouth is swiveling on his penis up and down.

(7) Using your hands

If you want to stimulate him more strongly during oral sex, you can do so by using your hands. Using your hands also open the possibility of stimulating his testicles and perineum (the area between the scrotum and the anus) while you continue to give him oral stimulation on his male organ.

(8) Blowing hot and cold

Oral sex can be fun if you can spice it up by playing with temperature and sensations. You take in a mouthful of warm water. You then swill it around your mouth and swallow. Next you take his penis into your mouth for 20 seconds. After this, you take in a mouthful of cold water, swill it around your mouth and swallow. You resume the blowjob. The differences in hot and cold will feel great for him. An alternate way will be to put an ice-cube in your mouth before taking in his male organ. The heat of your mouth combined with the occasional flashes of chilliness will keep him on his toes.

(9) Do not neglect other areas

The scrotum and testicles are highly sensitive areas that can drive him wild when you either lick on his testicles and/or gently pull his scrotum downward. Most men enjoy a lot when their women stick their tongues into the anus.

(10) Bringing him to climax

You should never feel obliged to let him ejaculate in your mouth. It is your decision and is determined by your level of comfort about it. If you do not want to swallow, ask him to give you a warning. He should not think any less of you about your choice. You can continue the hand stroking through his orgasm.