A woman has the power to convulse uncontrollably while she’s oclimaxing. Her body will ripple and she will scream so loud it will scare you at first! You will get used to her SCREAMING YOUR NAME and blessing you for giving her such pleasure. She will buck off the bed so hard and fast you’ll have a hard time catching her. Read how easy it is…

1st Tip.

Get to her head if you want to get to her body. A client of mine told me that a woman told him that as he was about ready to make love to her. He had to scratch his head and ask her what she meant.

She said, “kiss me and make me feel the emotion.” My client never forgot that and I never did either.

Never, ever (unless it is a sex game and you agree upon it) start anywhere else but her head or mouth first. Give her some great kissing and a real hot make out session. Let her know you care about her.

2nd Tip.

Worship her breasts. Women can have some massive orgasms from her nipples to her clitoris. Don’t neglect her breasts. The easy way to know what to do is to ask her what she would like you to do with her breasts.

The key is to tease her breasts and spend a long time there. Thirty minutes is a good time frame, especially if you can get both breast orgasms. Imagine how hot she will be when you go south.

Kiss, lick, and then increase your sucking pressure and the speed of your sucking. Don’t hurt her, but give her your maximum speed and pressure for sucking her breasts.

3rd Tip.

Moving downward, go to her clitoris and tease it so expertly that she’s twitching and convulsing already. By this time she should be so wet and hot that she’s breathing hard, and arching up to meet your touch.

Remember, less touch is more. Her clitoris is sensitive so you need to touch and withdraw. Do that until she really bucks off the bed.

4th Tip.

Now, go for her g-spot with a firm one or two finger approach. It is found two inches inside, past the pubic bone. Stroke it toward you and keep up a nice rhythm. Talk to her and tell her what you’re going to do next. Act as if you’re doing that already. Tease her.

Now, just as she’s about to have a climax, enter her and consummate the orgasm. Rub upwards and drive her nuts. She should be bucking, convulsing, and shouting your name!

We all want to cherish that special person in our life whom we hold close to our heart. Practically, this idea runs into many problems because of individual differences make agreement difficult.

You are two different people with different views of the world. To live together harmoniously, you should create a shared dream that is important to both of you. It could be buying a house together or celebrating your twentieth anniversary together. These beautiful dreams will help you focus on the positive aspects of your relationship.

1. Love the minor differences

No two people are exactly alike-even those besotted with each other. Big or small, differences are likely to creep up from the unlikeliest of places. If you want to love her unconditionally, you will need to care for her in spite of the differences. Remember, differences occur not due to someone’s fault, but due to the fact that you are two individuals. Do not try to change her, but try to move ahead with a better understanding of each other.

2. Don’t take things personally

There are times when certain aspects of your personality come into sharp focus. Maybe you are a loner and her highly sociable lifestyle throws your limited social circle right back at you. Constantly. Do not develop a complex about these things. Instead of taking them personally, view these things in perspective. She has her life and you need to love her for her personality – it should happen the other way round as well.

3. Set rules

Setting rules is a great way to make your expectations more explicit. Rather than springing up surprises and causing the other person to feel uncomfortable, it can help if both of you know what to expect from each other in specific circumstances. You can set rules for interacting in public or with each other’s friends and parents, managing expenses, and so on. This will reduce disagreements and make it easy to build a relationship.

4. Forgive

If you want to love her unconditionally, you will have to learn to forgive, even when your mind feels like a pressure cooker or your heart is bleeding. Just forgive. In the end, nothing is worth hurting someone with your words. You can always return to the matter after both of you have distanced yourself from it to decide what went wrong. Once you have done that, simply put it to rest for good.

5. Don’t make everything your problem

Many people feel very responsible and protective towards their partners. While this is a good thing, it can often lead to an unbalanced relationship. Everybody has problems, and your girlfriend will have hers. Trust her to solve her problems on her own. If she needs your help, she will let you know. Until then, you should simply stay away but let her know you are always ready to help.

To love someone anyways is about valuing him or her as a complete person, not as an idealized image you have in your mind. Realizing that you are a person with a vibrant personality can be one of the most enriching aspects of your life.

Lonesome

My wife died Tuesday, March 12, 2013 at 9:30 P.M.

I miss her.

She had a brain tumor Glioblastoma.

Which is as bad as it sounds.

She was diagnosed on January 11, 2013.

It did not take long.

She was a nurse.

There was no way to kid her.

She knew the score.

What shall we do Mary?

“I don’t want to die.”

“Honey, you are not going to die,

let’s do the Chemo.. the Radiation..

Maybe a miracle..”

“OK”.

No such luck.

The Chemo, the radiation every day for 2 weeks..

She gets weaker and weaker..

Finally, Pneumonia, blindness, coma.

I sit in the hospital.

Hours at a time.

I eat there.

Sometimes her hospital food.

She does not eat.

I doze and waken.

Nothing new.

The hospital people are so good to us.

Patient and kind and empathetic.

The doctor looks at me

With empty eyes.

I pray, I read

I hold her hand and tell her I love her.

I think of the mournful song,

“Maybe I should have held you

through the lonely, lonely nights.

Maybe I should have told you

I’m so happy that you’re mine.

The little things I could have said and done

but never took the time..

But you were always on my mind

You were always on my mind.”

Oh! How I wish

For just a little more time.

Now comes the Morphine.

The oxygen and difficult breathing.

Farewell.

I miss her.

“She’s in a better place”.

I tell myself.

But I miss her.

I pray for faith.

I am busy with the after details.

The cremation

The words of loved ones

trying to comfort me

Picking out the Urn, the flowers,

the internment.

The empty feeling leaving her

at the cemetery.

Life goes on

But, dear God

I miss her.

The death of a loved one is, unfortunately something we all must experience.

In my work as a therapist, I counsel people that the mourning does not end at the funeral. No more than a race ends at the finish line. But I have come to realize that it is Oh so personal!

Why do bad things happen to good people? I have pondered this mystery many times.

St. Paul says..

“Life is like a tapestry. While we are living, all we see is the back, which is just a confusing accumulation of thread and knots.. When our life is over, the tapestry turns and we see the true picture.” We then come to know why.”

There is a reason for all things. We must know the pain of loss; because if we never knew it, we would have no compassion for others. We would become monsters of self regard and self interest. The pain of loss teaches humility and has the power to soften our hearts, to make a better person of a good one.”

But, Dear God.. Oh! How I miss her!

While sitting a table with my sister at what I was told was a health fair in mid-September, we met a truly amazing woman. As it turned out, this was clearly not a health fair and Grace Jones was the only person to stop and talk with my sister and I that day. One might think that it was just a silly coincidence, but I’m not a believer in coincidence. In my heart, I know that we were meant to meet that day, and I’m so grateful we did.

Grace stopped to comment on how she loved my black shirt with purple butterflies on it… sharing with me that purple is her favorite color too. As she looked at the things on my table that I was selling, she asked some questions about Reiki and the crystal healing pouches I had created. This quickly transpired into what seemed like a conversation with an old friend, and she shared with me her story of having been diagnosed with colon cancer and that the surgery was scheduled for the end of the month. This is a story that Grace had decided not to even share with her family. I felt honored that she felt comfortable enough to shared her story with me. In talking with Grace, I quickly got a sense of her soul, listening to the incredible amount of positivity that came through to me in talking about her life while speaking with her.

Thinking back to the diagnosis of cancer that came to me in my life, I remember the vast array of emotions that flooded me daily, none of which were positive or even remotely healthy for me. But the woman standing before me exuded strength, positivity, love and such light. Simply by the way she spoke, and the passion for life in her voice, I might never have known what she was going through had she not told me. I could feel the brightest light in her soul. Even while speaking about her diagnosis, she knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that she was going to find the rainbow at the end of it all, and come out an even stronger and brighter Grace than before. What a truly amazing woman, and I feel blessed to now call her my friend.

A few days after meeting Grace, she called to talk with me about Medical Reiki and asked about all of the healing benefits of Reiki before, during and after surgery. Grace asked that I Reiki her during her surgery, and I felt honored to be a part of this beautiful woman’s healing journey. I immediately sent a post to all of my Certified Medical Reiki Master sisters to be with us on Graces surgery day in spirit with healing and thoughts of love and light. Due to the short notice, I would not be able to be physically in the operating room with her, but we planned a two hour Reiki session for during her surgery, and I provided a Reiki drip for the next few hours after her surgery so that she could hopefully be out of recovery quickly and find herself in her balloon filled hospital room resting and beginning to heal. Prior to her surgery, Grace arranged for herself, a room that would look and feel like a celebration was happening while she was there. This is how Grace lived her life and it shined through at every turn. Even after her surgery, she wanted to be able to see fun things of light and happiness surrounding her while healing in her hospital room.

Grace had given her daughter my phone number so that we could touch base after her surgery and I was so happy to hear all of the updates of her miraculous milestones after each day had passed. After a few days, Grace was emailing me herself with wonderful updates on how she felt, and completely back to her true and happy self. Three weeks later, Grace and I met up for brunch and boy did she look absolutely stunning. Again, with such light in her heart, I would have never guessed all she had been through because this beautiful woman was just glowing. And this to me speaks volumes of her person. I learned that day, that she, like most of us has a story with some less than wonderful things that she’s endured in her life. Sitting across from me was this amazing Grace, who through her own trials and tribulations in life, would not let any of that darkness penetrate into the light of her mind, body and soul. In fact, to celebrate life in the upcoming weeks, she had planned an amazing trip to London with her daughter. Such an amazing soul she is… truly an inspiration to me!

Grace, I thank you for allowing me to be a part of and share the story of your healing journey after your cancer diagnosis and surgery. It is my hope that everyone, including myself will realize life’s many blessings around us, and continue to see that we all have bumps in the road of life. It is truly how you handle those bumps that makes all the difference in our lives. From the little bit I’ve learned about Grace, I know that she continuously sees the light of the sunshine, even through the rain. This my dears, is truly living life and what life is all about. If we all learned to do this, the world would most certainly be a brighter place. Grace, to me, you are and will always be Amazing Grace, and I feel blessed to know you. xoxo

This is the healing time period recap post that I sent to all of my Certified Medical Reiki Master sisters who sent their love and light to everyone involved in Grace’s surgery:

Thanks for all of the thoughts sent our way while I did distant Reiki for a truly inspirational woman of positivity having had colon cancer surgery. I wanted to share a wonderful recap of miraculous healing. Post Surgery I received reports from her daughter that her surgery was a success. On day 3, Grace emailed me while in the hospital of doing well and in great spirits. On day 4, Grace hit all milestones and would be released the next day. She reports of doing great and to the surprise of all doctors on her healing progress. On day 6, she reports no pain from surgery – only back pain from the awful hospital bed. On day 10, Grace is well enough to go to the beach to heal in her happy place, and reports of getting stronger every day. On day 12 she met with her doctor to receive the news that the surgery revealed stage 2 colon cancer. They got it all out and it had not spread, so no radiation or chemotherapy needed. She reports that she’s healing very nicely and feeling great! Her body is functioning back to normal and her appetite is good! I feel truly blessed to receive such fabulous news as well as to have been able to support her in this journey of healing. Wanted to thank all of your for your thoughts of healing and support as well as deliver absolutely amazing news in healing.

Please share this story with anyone you know that it may help or could simply use a message of inspiration in their lives.

There is an old saying that goes: “If you keep doing what you’ve done, you’re going to keep getting what you got…” If whatever you’ve been doing hasn’t worked in the past, chances are, doing it more, harder, or longer isn’t going to work either.

For many woman who have difficulty reaching an orgasm, their first success comes with a vibrator. And, once they learn the trick, they eventually learn to achieve an orgasm without mechanical assistance, and, if all goes well, eventually with their lover. There are women who never progress beyond needing the vibrator, and some women who were once capable of coming without them, can even become dependent on them…

I’d like to address the issue of women who are completely anorgasmic, which is to say, even with the help of a vibrator, they have yet to experience their first orgasm… and I’m going to tell you how you can give her her first orgasm.

Now, the simple fact is, there are a million reasons that a woman can’t achieve orgasm, and I can’t know for sure what is going on with any one woman in particular…But basically it’s a pretty good bet that if she can’t come using a vibrator then the issue is NOT physical.In other words, if a vibrator can’t do it then there is no position, no device, no amount of stamina, and no special g-spot technique that is going to work to bring her orgasm.

So if it’s not a physical issue what does that leave?

Hmmm…

If you said, “emotional” then you get to go to the head of the class (and you’ll soon be able to give your woman an orgasm if you’re willing to learn a few things and be patient). And, YES, these emotional female orgasm techniques work like crazy.

The first thing you’ve got to do (and her friends have got to do too – women talk about this sort of thing all the time), is stop pressuring the poor girl. Feeling pressure to have an orgasm is, for women, pretty much the same thing as putting pressure on a guy when he’s having trouble getting it up. Imagine you’ve been stressed at work and you’re a little slow on getting stimulated, and your wife or girlfriend takes out a stop watch and says, “come on! I haven’t got all night! Get ready already!” That’s pretty much what’s going on for your woman right now if her inability to have an orgasm is an issue in your relationship.

So the first thing you’re going to need to do is tell her that, at least for a little while, you’re going to both stop trying to make her come and focus instead on just enjoying the pleasure that she already has from sex. (Sex feels great even when you don’t have an orgasm, after all). This will be the first step towards building the “Sexual Trust” that will be necessary to get her emotionally able to come.

Next you’re going to have to start making her feel good about her sexuality. (Like, the opposite of inadequate, which is what the “pressure” is making her feel right now).

Eventually, she will sexually surrender herself to you, and that will allow you to “give her permission” to experience an orgasm… something that, for one reason or another, some women simply can’t do for themselves.

Okay, Let’s Dig In To The Serious Stuff…

Orgasms don’t come from stimulating the vagina in just the right way, they come from the brain (and when it’s really good, you could say they come from the heart). Building connection with her, making her feel safe to experience these feelings, and getting her more highly aroused by creating masculine energy is what will ultimately give her orgasms from sex.

Teasing is one great way to build sexual tension that I think you should experiment with. It’s a powerful female orgasm technique that is too often neglected through nothing but impatience.

For example… if you touch her slowly and move in circles around her nipples or clitoris, but don’t actually touch those super-sensitive areas… until she’s literally begging you to go further… as you drive her crazy teasing in this way, 2 things are happening:

THE OBVIOUS: She gets hot and excited from the building sexual tension

THE ELUSIVE: Because you are taking control of how and when she gets sexual pleasure, you are assuming the masculine role of LEADING the interaction, and controlling her body.

As you become less and less tentative and more in control of the sexual interaction, and more in control of HER sexual feelings and response, she will become far more deeply sexually aroused than she may have been in the past.

AND, more importantly, she will feel more Sexual Trust towards you, which will cause her to finally SURRENDER to you… this will make it possible, ultimately, for you to give her orgasms at will.

This doesn’t happen quickly. It is a process.

The first step is doing the things that make her feel your masculine power.

As I mentioned above, TEASING is a great way to begin this process.

Biting her on the back of the neck (you don’t need to do it hard enough to leave a mark!) is another powerful turn on for women because it is a primitive, instinctive cue of your dominance.

Even before you get into bed, just picking her up and throwing her over your shoulder and spinning her around until she is giggling her head off is the kind of display of masculinity that will make her much more receptive to you in the bedroom.

And when you are in bed, the confident, strong but gentle way in which you put your hands on her body can communicate a a whole world of masculine sexual confidence to her. And that is better than all the sex tips I can give you.

Earning Her Sexual Trust

So is it all about eye contact and building intimacy… Or is all about being masculine and dominant?

Actually, these are two sides of the same coin.

For many pre-orgasmic women, the issue is simply that they can’t let go… they can’t give themselves permission to come. Often they are unaware of this fact, but for other women… she knows she’s about to come… and she can tell that there is this huge amount of pleasure just on the other side of where she is… and it SCARES THE HELL OUT OF HER.

It’s kind of like that feeling you have when you get to the top of the roller coaster and it’s about to plunge down that first, steep drop…

It’s scary– but you have no choice by then, you’re going over the side…

And when you do, you SCREAM… and you have a

GREAT TIME.

BUT…

Imagine if there was a button on roller coasters that people could push, just as they got to the top of that first hill, that would let them stop the ride so that they could get off?

Now everyone who got onto that roller coaster got on because they expected to have a lot of fun… But I’m willing to bet that if there was a button like that… that A LOT OF PEOPLE WOULD PUSH IT AND GET OFF THE RIDE.

That’s EXACTLY what happens with many women who haven’t had their first orgasm.So what can you do about it? You need to win her SEXUAL TRUST so that she can completely SURRENDER herself to you. Once she does that, instead of giving herself permission to come, she will surrender that permission to YOU… she will allow YOU to make the decision to let loose.

Sexual Trust, the way I am defining it, is not the same as relationship trust or the kind of trust issues that you talk about when it comes to marriage problems. It is not about honesty or knowing that you won’t cheat on her or hurt her. It is about her trusting your ability to safely take her to a place where she will lose control and safely take her back again without her experiencing any kind of weirdness or embarrassment.

I sometimes use the analogy of an airline pilot.

Would you rather have a pilot who is honest and of the highest integrity… who you could leave alone in a room with bag full of cash, and know he’d never be tempted?

Or would you rather get onto the plane with a guy who may be kind of a jerk, but who has flown thousands of hours under the worst weather conditions and landed planes at the most technically challenging airports during hurricanes without ever having a safety incident?

Who would you trust to fly you home from your next vacation?

Sexual Trust works the same way.

And earning requires competence, confidence, and decisiveness… as well as tenderness, intimacy, and communication.

I often hear from wives who are trying to deal with two frustrations simultaneously. First, they are devastated that their husband has admitted to cheating. And second, they are beside themselves because he won’t disclose who he has been cheating with.

I heard from a wife who said: “my husband finally admitted that he has been cheating. I’ve strongly suspected it all along. He hasn’t been coming home on time. He’s been taking a lot of private phone calls and texts. He’s been distant and cold to me. He hasn’t shown any interest in me sexually for a while. I have repeatedly accused him of cheating and he has always denied it. However, last night he finally broke down and admitted that he had been cheating but had recently stopped. If that’s not devastating enough, he will not disclose who he has been cheating with. He says that who she was does not matter because she is now out of his life. He says he wants to move on with our marriage and put this behind us. How can I even begin to do that when he won’t even tell me who she is? Why would he keep this from me?” I will discuss these issues (and try to answer her questions) in the following article.

Potential Reasons That Your Husband Won’t Tell You Who He Cheated With: There are various reasons why husband will want to keep the identity of the other woman secret. Sometimes, the husband knows that your learning her identity is going to make you tempted to dwell on or obsess over her and will therefore make it harder for you to move on. Many men worry that the second he gives you her name, you’re going to immediately Google her or find her on Facebook and then contact her to get her version of the story or to confront her. Many husbands want to avoid this at all costs.

Another possibility is that her identity is going to be particularly upsetting to you. It’s common for her to be a friend, colleague, neighbor, coworker, acquaintance or even a family member. If she is someone who you know, then you can feel doubly betrayed. I am not saying that any of these examples are valid reasons that justify his keeping her identity from you. I’m just trying to share what might be behind his thought process to help you come up with a plan or strategy.

How To Handle It When Your Husband Won’t Tell You The Name Of The Other Woman: I believe that you have the right to this information. If you are going to try to save your marriage, then you need to be fully aware of what (and who) you are dealing with. You can’t do that if he is leaving some pieces of the puzzle out. He may well be reluctant to give you her identity out of fear. But there are going to be plenty of difficult conversations in the days ahead and you must trudge ahead anyway. He needs to understand that if he is serious and sincere about moving forward with you, he needs to be forthcoming without exception.

In order to communicate this, a suggested conversation must be something like: “I get that you might be reluctant about my reaction to her identity, but that’s a risk you’re going to have to take because I can’t evaluate our situation without having all of the information. I need to know everything including details about who she was, where you met her, the nature of the relationship, and for how long it lasted. And that is just for starters. In order for us to even begin to heal, you’re going to have to show me that you are willing to be honest and forthcoming about everything. I will do my best to work with you, but you are going to need to do much better than this. I can not even begin to think about our healing or what I want to do moving forward until I have all of the information. When you are ready to provide me with that, let me know. Until then, we really do not have much to talk about. You say that it’s over with her and that you want to move forward. I can’t begin to do that until you are completely honest with me.”

I can’t promise you that these words will suddenly get him talking, but it will certainly give him something to think about. Some husbands will try to wait their wives out. They will just sit back and see if the wife will eventually drop the issue of the other woman. They hope that they will be able to get in her good graces in some other way. Whether you allow this or not is up to you. But I believe that her identity is information that you need to know. Of course, there are various ways that you can find out that information for yourself, but it is so much better if he tells you himself.

That’s not to say that her identity is completely vital to your recovery. Infidelity is devastating no matter who the other person was. But many women find it particularly hard if they personally know or care about the other woman. Still others want to know if she is younger, prettier, or what it was about her that caused the husband to risk his marriage.

And this is where you might reach a slippery slope. While I agree that you deserve to know who she is, I would caution you not to become obsessed with her once you get this information. It’s understandable to want to know as much as you can about the cheating as is possible (and this includes information about her.) But some wives get the basic information that they have asked for and find that it’s not enough. They’ll then take it further and research her, confront her, and then continue to think about or dwell on her.

This is often not in your best interest. Whether you want to save your marriage or not, the focus should be on your healing and on your ability to move on. If you dwell on her too much, you thwart your ability to do that. However, this isn’t even possible if you don’t know who she is.

To make your girl accepts cunnilingus, one of the most important things that you must do it to make her feel physically and mentally relaxed. You will also need to make her horny and make her want it bad from you.

Let me share with you 5 ways to persuade your girl to accept cunnilingus from you:

1. Get your woman warmed up. When it comes to cunnilingus and sex, your woman is like an oven. You cannot bake a cake unless the oven is “preheated”. If your lover has not been warmed up yet, she will not be receptive in receiving cunnilingus from you.

2. Get her mentally in the mood for cunnilingus. She must be physically and mentally relaxed and comfortable, and as a result, receptive to cunnilingus. Perform some sensual massage or foot rub on her will usually do the trick. A hot bath is also a good idea to prepare her for cunnilingus.

3. Read a steamy novel together. Women are seldom turned on by something that they see, most of the time it is something mental. So by reading a steamy novel together, preferably with cunnilingus included, will get her juices flowing and ready for cunnilingus.

4. Caress her thighs. Use the tips of your tongue to stimulate her thigh, but strictly leave out her vulva. This is to let her imagine what it is going to feel like if she allows your tongue to touch her clitoris.

5. Be romantic. Romance can get a woman mentally turned on, which will result in her being receptive to cunnilingus. Take her out for a candlelight dinner, and give her some thoughtful gifts. The gifts do no need to be expensive, as long as she gets to feel the thoughts and efforts that are put into the gifts.

Lastly, explain to her that cunnilingus is the best way to intensify orgasms. Assure her that once she tries it once, she will crave for more.

Do you know that more than 81% of women regularly receive orgasms from cunnilingus, when compared to only 25% of them from traditional penetration, provided the man does it RIGHT? Find out how to perform cunnilingus the right way from the website below to avoid making embarrassing and costly mistakes:

Women can have tremendous orgasms without any touching – including their own! That’s the powerful secret that men, and women, should know and utilize TODAY!

Many sexual researchers and physiologists have remarked that the largest sex organ is actually the human brain. If you harness the brain correctly, you are off to the sexual races.

Giving women this tremendous pleasure can be done in person, on the phone, or via email, chat, twitter, or who knows what. I have personal knowledge that it works in many ways.

In the four decades that I’ve researched and tried many techniques, I’ve probably interviewed over 12,000 women. Most of that was over the internet on IRC, chat, or emails.

I found that very few women had regular orgasms and those that did had only the clitoral orgasm. Most either didn’t know about the g-spot or the epicenter or didn’t know how to successfully access orgasms through those spots.

I found that if women were in the right mood, relaxed, respected, and adored…they could literally come up with amazing results! Researchers have determined that many women take about 72 hours to get in the proper mood for love making. A smart man would take the time to do that!

Assuming the woman was IN THE MOOD, and there’s many ways to help the woman along in that direction, then the man can achieve some powerful things without touch of any kind.

The first step in giving your lady the biggest thrill of her life is to get to her head first through reliving her fantasies. Once you get to her head, her body surely follows. Ask her what her biggest sexual fantasy is. Ask her why this is her fantasy. Has she lived any of her fantasy? What happened?

At this point her skin should be flushed and her heart will be beating faster. Her nostrils will be flaring and her breathing will be increased. You’ll notice that her face will be flushed.

I once met a woman and she asked me to explain, in detail, what I would do to her. So I did. I started from her mouth and went “south.” I told her in detail how I’d kiss her, play with her tongue with mine, and then work on her neck more. I spent some time telling her how I’d tease, suck, lick, and gently chew her breats and nipples. About that time I noticed the car started to shake and I looked around and noticed she was convulsing, from head to toe. She had a powerful orgasm and excused herself as she was quite embarrassed. I told her it was great.

Then I told her what I’d do in the lower regions and she came again! Even more powerfully, now that she was really IN THE MOOD!

I’ve also accomplished the same thing, supposedly as I wasn’t there, by simply instant messaging a woman. She told me she had pulled the internet plug out of the wall with her foot, she came so hard. I had to reconnect with her and that’s exactly what she told me as the reason for leaving.

I basically told her, via messaging, the same thing I told the other woman. Her powerful imagination did the rest. She stated emphatically that she didn’t touch herself. She was typing with both hands.

Well, enjoy and come back again for more exciting adventures!

A relationship is not complete without a successful sex life. Girls expect men to know what they’re doing and to lead the way to pleasure inside the bedroom. But what if a man is not able to provide pleasure? Most men know the importance of sex in a relationship but they end up concentrating only on their pleasure in bed, disregarding their partner’s.

Can you imagine just how amazing your love life could be if your girlfriend continues to get satisfied in bed with you? Here are some tips for men who want their girlfriends to long for sex with them every single day…

Make Her Explode in Pleasure Every Time You Make Love – Three Tips

Technique 1: “Relax, Babe”.

Your girlfriend must feel completely relaxed all throughout. Her level of comfort determines the intensity of her orgasm. A woman can only feel pleasure when all her other senses are at ease. If she’s tense, her mind will be on something else and not the emotions she’s feeling for you at that moment.

Knead her muscles with your lips and fingers alternately. Make sure you say something that will soothe her mind while you’re at it.

Technique 2: “Oral Stimulation”

Even if you’ve never gone down on a woman before, act like you have and enjoy every minute of it. If you hesitate, a woman will feel your awkwardness and will feel like she’s forcing you to go down.

Start on the fleshy part of her mound and move on to her clitoris. A woman’s sensitive spots will be suffused with blood during sex so you can’t miss them.

Do not rush oral sex. A girl will not climax with simple “licking”. You have to act like you’re savoring her very essence and showing her more love than she can handle. Maintain eye contact to keep the sexual connection going.

Technique 3: “Increase Sexual Connection”.

Remember the ABCs of making love: always be caressing. A woman likes being touched on her erogenous zones, particularly the spot most guys miss… her g spot. Touching this tiny ridge located along the walls of her portal will increase sexual connection.

So how can you make a woman orgasm that she would end up wanting more and more from you? How can you pleasure her in ways she has never dreamed about? Do you know that 70% of women out there tend to fake their orgasms during sex? The major reason for this being that men are just not able to satisfy women. Therefore it becomes extremely important to know the perfect ways of making her orgasm and pleasuring her…

Give her a nice message first- Do you know that she would never orgasm until her body is completely relaxed and she is at ease? A nice oil massage is one of the best possible ways to turn her on and lead her to an astonishing ultimate orgasm.

Locate the erogenous zones- Learn where her erogenous zones are stimulate them to really turn her on. You see women have trigger points all over their body which once stimulated would turn them on instantly and they would be ever so ready for an orgasm. These points are generally the back of her neck, her lips, inner parts of her thighs and so on.

Use her name a lot- Do you know what’s the most important to a woman? It’s her name! You see in order to really make her orgasm you need much more than just physical stimulation, you need mental stimulation at the same time and the best possible way to do this is to use her name a lot. Tell her how good she is and how good she is making you feel. This would instantly stimulate her emotionally and you would see her achieve multiple orgasms.