7 Steps to Becoming A Network Marketing Professional by Eric Worre, A Book Review

To truly believe network marketing is better than a traditional job you have to understand the state of today’s economy. He makes his point about this referencing to how new technologies have taken jobs off the market. Once highly valued in yesterdays economy jobs and college educations where the only clear way to success. But not anymore. Today network marketing has proven otherwise.

More companies are going to the MLM approach to get their product out when fifteen years ago the choice would have been to create a string of store fronts. What corporations in the past spent on building stores, creating commercials on television, print ads now rather give to distributors instead. Eric emphasizes that jobs are not all coming back and one of the only ways to financial freedom for the average person is with network marketing.

Once this reality is understood he then moves on to label every network marketer into three categories. The first being a poser, then a amateur and a professional. He goes on to explain how many who think of themselves as professionals are actually amateurs or even posers. He explains this by the way they go about with their recruiting efforts and verbage. Just like anything else there is a right way and a wrong way to do things.

His point is that if you are going to get into network marketing you must decide to Go Pro not just try it and never make the effort to hone your skills. Enthusiasm is important but not knowing how to approach, respond and close professionally in a way that today’s society is more open to will break your business. Old methods of recruiting simply are not effective anymore.

Eric continues on to share his skills on effectively prospecting in a way that gets people to want to hear from you. The skills are finding prospects, inviting Prospects to Understand Your Product or Opportunity, Presenting Your Product or Opportunity to Your Prospects, Following Up With Your Prospects, Helping Your Prospects Become Customers or Distributors, Helping Your New Distributor Get Started Right and Promoting Events. He outlines also his direct and indirect approach to grabbing the attention of everyday people and then determining if they are fit to be a network marketer.

Though I barely scratched the surface on the detail in this book. If you are serious about not getting out of touch with today’s network marketing methods then you need to read this book. I give this book a thumbs up and a must read for every entrepreneur looking to either refresh their skills.

Open Football Trials – A Key to Success in Becoming a Qualified Football Enthusiast!

Million of aspirants are there who want to become a professional football player. However, sometimes they get the right track and at times they just could not make it to the football world. Around the world, there are literally millions of children who aspire to becoming professional football players. And also, players of many small league academies also wish to make it big into the proficient areas of football. Some people are able to grab the opportunities which come in front and some of them just fail to grasp the opportunities open to them. However, at times due to lack of attentiveness also this happens. Open Football Trials are definitely a perfect choice as they really help young aspirants to climb the ladder of success.

Open Football Trials guarantee success, however you need to follow the strategies and techniques. Then only you can improve your chance of accomplishment and then it will help you to achieve the most. Practice is a must and it should be done daily to make it really big in the world of football. Either you can practice at home or you can join a good football academy to learn the basics. You must be perfect at juggling the ball; this is a key factor which is needed to become professional. Practice bouncing the ball off various parts of your body, so that when it is needed you can do it with perfection. This proficiency will help you to understand the basics of ball control. Keep on practicing and improving speed skills until you have sharpened them to utmost capability.

Running and stretching must be practiced often so that you are able to pass Open Football Trials. If you want any chance of passing an open football trial, then you must practice running and stretching. Stretching is a basic activity to any sport. In addition, stretching also enlarges elasticity, an important ability that is desirable to perform many ball expertise at professional level. With the precise working out, anyone can pick up their game. And also at times, this step up is adequate to incline a capable player into the professional football sports ground.

For the most part, that any wannabe football player should do is to sign up to one of the open football trials. A wide range of options are available to choose a perfect one. You can find many local football clubs in your area. They investigate the proficiency echelon of individual players and also they evaluate whether they are brilliant enough to make it as a professional player. However, to get all the way through Open Football Trials, you do not essentially have to be extraordinarily first-class, but simply you need to exhibit great potential.

The FULL-GUIDE to Becoming an Enlightened Alpha-Male

I’m writing this amazing discovery after I quit meditating in the middle because I’ve had to write down this amazing epiphany.

This deep internalization provides closure for my 3 years of success, failure, self-introspection, meditation, sex, lies, suicidal thoughts, thoughts about god; Times of bliss and times of depression, amazing relationship – and those that I am still hurt by to this day.

In short this article is a 3 year closure of self-seeking, for I have finally found my long searched-for TRUTH.

I might repeat myself several times during this article, this is for emphasis.

Opening:

My name is Robby, it does not matter whether you’ve heard of me or not, or what your perception of me is; The thoughts and insights I share in this article are based on my personal truth which I have slowly pieced together through the long and painful process of walking through the blaze, being thrown back out, and then jumping back in.

I am not here to share my biography, nor do I wish to right now, what is of divine importance to me though is stressing that this article is written ENTIRELY based on personal experience and repeated beating by reality, which have helped focus and shape me into the person I am today, thus, I consider my words – fact.

This article is meant to express the current level of consciousness I am in, a person roughly my level of consciousness will thoroughly enjoy this article and learn how to piece together past and future events of his life, to “see the bigger picture” if I may.

A person who has surpassed my level of consciousness will indulge in a different point of view than his that is very easy to relate to and learn from in correlation to HIS past experiences.

This article is mainly intended for those who are confused, who can not find the center in their life. It is intended for those who are cursed with inspiration and can’t accept normal life as it is. Those who are considered ‘weird’ by many, but potentially could rise up from the masses to be like gods to ants. This article is my Pickup bible, my self-improvement bible, as well as an anchor for this higher state of mind. It was not even written by me, for I am merely the vessel for the exuding of knowledge that this article possess.

Grab a cup of tea, sit comfortably, and enjoy…

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Every article starts with basic semantics so I will start mine with the following topics:

– How do I define pickup?

– What is the inner-goal every man has regardless of outer goals (money, women, revolution, etc)?

What is Pickup:

Pickup is the fascinating world of success with women, it is a journey for men who have previously been unsuccessful in their dating life and decided to take themselves to a place of more abundance and choice; On the journey to become a better man and improve his dating life, the average man will go through a lot of pain in the attempts to peel away the layers of shit that have layered on top of his self-esteem (the ego).

Most men enter the field of pickup for reasons of the ego (impressing others, never feeling the pain of rejection again). Most leave after a year or two when they find the woman (or women) they wanted and are ready to settle down. Those who stay after – the maniacal and obsessive pickup addicts, are usually those who will later succeed in OTHER areas of their life massively and find TRUE happiness and purpose in their life, as opposed to the man who settles for ‘just above average’.

Our ability to successfully consistently attract, date, and sleep with the women we are interested provides a direct mirror to where we currently are as men and human-beings in our personal development, and to reach the next level in our abilities with women we must go back and introspect to peel another layer of ego to reach our deep male core which was hidden from us through social-conditioning and past disappointments.

What is every man’s inner-goal?

(I have to give some credit to Alexander from RSD for this definition, it is by far the simplest and deepest definition of a man’s purpose I’ve come across)

We are all born with three alpha-male instincts, they are imprinted in us from the moment we are born ’till the day we die, we can never deny them; and our long-term happiness is a reflection of how loyal we are to these instincts and primal needs, these three instincts are:

Being present to the moment – Not analyzing, being completely devoted in your intent, no comparing and no hesitating, being clear in your intent and positive.

Being positive/dominant – Taking what you want, leading, being physical, being empathic, creating initiative, taking-up space and feeling comfortable in it, generating positive emotions through your actions, attracting people rather than pulling them by force.

Being a man of action – A man’s ability is determined by his willingness to take action and do what’s right in his eyes.

In each social interaction, there will always be only 1 alpha male, the alpha male is the man who is most connected to these 3 basic instincts, therefore:

A man who walks the street and sees a woman he is very attracted to and doesn’t approach, has less value than a beginner pickup-artist who approaches and fails. (because he takes action to a certain extent)

The beginner pickup-artist who fails will have less value than the intermediate pickup artist who feels good in his own body and is present to the moment. (more connected to his inner-core)

Even the intermediate pickup artist will never have the value that a man on his life purpose has, a man who knows what he wants and has his whole life including his internal compass aligned to that goal. (an embodiment of the 3 male instincts)

The first to men, the man who won’t approach and the beginner pickup artist are both unattractive and not alpha males, because both of them have lower value than the woman, or in other words, the are less in contact with their inner-core, they don’t know “who they are” as good as the girl knows “who she is” (in that specific situation), that is because the man is more identified with his ego then the woman, so he has more to justify and is less exposed and authentic; with all these handicaps, how can he NOT be low-value?

The other 2 men on the other-hand, the intermediate pickup-artist and the ideal man (the man who completely aligned on his life’s purpose) both know “who they are” better than how much the woman knows “who she is”, and as a result they are less needy than the woman and she is reacting to them, meaning the man has higher value, meaning the woman is attracted.

The difference is that the intermediate pickup artist fluctuates between high-value and low-value behaviour because he has not yet fully discovered himself, he still has certain misconceptions and illusions regarding reality and can find himself reacting to the woman he is with; The ideal man however (either an advanced pickup artist or a rare inspired man of action), knows who he is completely and shed mostly (if not entirely) his ego and his identification with his identity, meaning he will almost never find himself reacting to the woman, thus always being high-value (attractive).

In the same way that a man’s attraction to a woman comes from the way she looks and the feminine energy she expresses, a woman’s attraction to a man stems from the actions that the man will take according to his attraction to the woman and desire to sleep with and take care of her. A man who is completely in contact with his internal values and inner-core will always know what he wants, and go after it without hesitation, that’s what makes him so attractive.

Being a man of action allows the woman to ground herself in the man’s male-polarizing energy, and she can fully experience him.

Our ego/self-image/identification is what stops us from connecting to our three basic male instincts that are within us from birth, we are not present to the moment because we keep thinking and analyzing situations which leads to hesitation instead of action. We are not dominant nor do we take what we want because social-conditioning has taught us we are not good enough. The only dominant men out there are aggressive angry chodes who are hurt and try to destroy. We are not men of action neither, because we fear what people would think of us and thus don’t take action. Even when we do act, we do it under a mask of ego, hiding our true intentions and reacting to the environment, all in an unconscious effort to avoid rejection, to know it is not us that truly failed, but a character we acted as.

All of these are fruits of the ego which we have built up in our lives, our own personal set of rationalizations which help us avoid reality and taking responsibility, all while ignoring the fact we are going against our nature. With each negative experience we went through during childhood and puberty we have created a scar which we carry with us and hide from the world, all of these scars provide emotions of anger, frustration, fear and bitterness; Even a stranger in the street giving us a frowning face could prove to maintain the belief that “people are naturally bad” if it was fed to us enough during childhood.

How do you measure a man’s “game”?

A man’s “game” or ability with attracting and seducing women, is a combination of two elements, yin-yang style, the two elements are inner-game and outer-game, these two topics may have been heavily explained previously but not in the levels which I’m going to discuss.

First of all, definitions:

Inner-Game: Inner-game is a reflection of where we stand in our path of self-acceptance, which is our ability to be exposed, authentic, naked (both in body and spirit); It is our ability to be honest with ourselves and accepting at the same time. Developing inner-game is a process we go through as we self-inspect and ask ourselves what are we currently afraid of, what are we hiding, which intentions are we not honest with ourselves and others about.

Developing inner game, is the giving up process of the fictional identity which we have created for ourselves and fully accepting our true beings which are rock-solid and can not change.

Inner game is our ability to freely express ourselves without filtering what we think and say and do around other people, meaning not hiding our thoughts, expressing our emotions and being accepting of them, being accepting of our opinions, preferences and boundaries.We fight to protect the ego, our self-image which we have built for ourselves (which is by nature false and not self-sustaining), by lying to other people, trying to impress them and taking certain measures to hide our internal state (thoughts and emotions), because we believe that people will not accept us as we currently are, and our unconscious mind believes on a deep level that this equates death.

The main difference between strong inner-game and weak inner-game is that building a strong inner-game requires a long and painful process of self-inspection and slowly peeling all layers of ego (not peeling in the onion sense, more like peeling a bandage, that’s stuck to our balls. You could do it slowly with relative pain or very fast with a huge amount of pain and courage).

Examples:

– Someone reacts to us negatively (get’s pissed off / makes fun of us), instead of having an immediate and appropriate reaction we start analyzing the situation and quickly look for a response that will get a response from the other person, thus confirming our ego/self-image; Instead of expressing what we feel and think, we limit or twist our behaviour and subjective reality to fit the current situation and to fit the character our self-image currently makes us to be.

– You go up to approach some girl, you’re feeling somewhat shy and calm, but you start shouting at her and acting with strong fake confidence, because you read it’s good to be confident – yet the girl can sense incongruence off of you thus labeling you immediately as low-value.

– The dreaded “Friendzone” exist solely because of the man’s lack of integrity with himself (not with the woman, with himself!) regarding his attraction and intentions towards the woman (he can’t admit to himself he wants her when it truly matters, because he’s afraid of possible rejection, and thus he rationalizes he has “feelings” for her, because she’s so “special”), this manifests itself in contradicting low-value behaviours from the guy; the woman won’t be attracted to the man, she won’t even get the chance to feel attraction, because at the first sign of attraction the man freaks-out and self-sabotages.

Outer-Game: One word – calibration. If inner-game defines our freedom to be honest with ourselves and express ourselves authentically, then outer-game defines how effectively we express ourselves. inner-game is the strength of our reality, outer-game our ability to pull people into that reality effectively.

The best analogy I have for inner/outer-game is a movie theater analogy, inner-game is the movie and how deep and emotional it is, outer-game is the subtitles people use to understand the movie and follow (even if it’s a different language).

Allow me to explain – when you are with a girl and you are completely self accepting (ie: no ego), that doesn’t necessarily means that the girl will love and accept you as easily as you love and accept your self, therefore, we need to learn how to express ourselves in such a way that other people would be able to get sucked into our reality. No matter how in-touch we are with our 3 basic alpha male instincts (presence, positive-dominance, taking action), we must know how to express ourselves in such a way that would effectively polarize the woman’s feminine energy, the process of learning this skill is learned by repeated experiences and failure, thus learning calibration, by practicing as much as possible you will have gathered enough reference experiences to know how to react in as many social situations and scenarios as possible. Learning outer-game is basically like refining a great script for our movie so that the girl could follow the movie without getting confused or uncomfortable.

Outer game is basically the vast spectrum of reactions we have to each social scenario that we’ve refined by constantly trying out new things and practicing old things in order to find more and more social patterns which make socializing more and more predictable, allowing us to push the limit of our social potential further and further.

The only way to attain tight outer-game is to constantly practice, try new things, and push your comfort zone. Thus increasing our ability to “ride the wave” just like a kid learns how to skate on a skateboard, at first he just has trouble standing on it, then he can ride it, then turn, then jump/Ollie, then manual; with each level being stacked on top of the skills previously learned.

This is the reason a guy who’s new to approaching women feels like he’s walking a tight-rope with every interaction, like mustn’t make mistake or else he’ll get rejected. On the other hand the intermediate and advanced guys feel a lot more like their walking a bridge, because he can easily and intuitively correct mistakes by having enough reference experiences that help support his tight outer-game.

This fits perfect with Jeff’s (RSD coach) analogy of the rookie plane pilot who encounters turbulence and freaks the fuck out, unlike the veteran pilot who’s seen it all, when he gets into turbulence he simply acknowledges it and presses a few buttons calmly and the turbulence soon passes.

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Now the to the main topic of the article – “how a lack of inner and outer-game sync causes frustration and failure”:

I’ll put it out like this, anytime we lack balance between inner-game and outer-game we experience frustration, this frustration manifests itself in the feeling that we’re stuck, we look for the next big thing to improve us, and most importantly – we look for that magic pill that we could swallow to improve painlessly and without the self-introspection and the peeling of the next deep level of ego/false reality we have in our head.

On the other hand, when there is an equilibrium between our inner-game and outer-game we experience amazing nights of progress and fun, we walk around with this godly feeling, no outcome dependence, no hesitation, just clarity and purpose, independent of the external environment and self-sustaining from within, we come in touch with our 3 male instincts.

The good new is that every time we reach equilibrium (or state), we will reach it at a higher intensity of Inner-Outer game correlation than last time, therefore the happiness we will feel, our ability to act without hesitation, our results, and the level of how immersed we are in our experience will all increase exponentially with time; Like a virtuoso guitar player delivering his greatest concert (this is the reason people stay in pickup long after attaining their starting goals).

In contrast, most of our journey will be spent in a state of lacking equilibrium, sometimes for days, weeks or even months; What happens during a lack of equilibrium is that our outer-game has improved and now we have to self-reflect and peel away another layer of dishonesty in our identity, another ego layer, in-order to sync our inner-game level with the new outer-game level we have attained through repeated training, since now there is a lack of congruence between the level at which we project ourselves and how we actually feel internally.

Inner-game is experienced in different levels, with each level requiring a higher level of ‘altitude’ (The disconnecting of the ego from the self. Objectively viewing life and purpose), this basically means we need a higher level of maturity, which enables us to see the bigger picture much better and clearer, instead of focusing on ego thoughts (“me me me!”).

The analogy I would use for inner-game development and it’s stages would be the difference between the CEO of a multimillion dollar company and the average desk worker in the company. The desk worker is only a tiny part of the company and his presence is not so important, he comes to work to do what he is required to without much thought, just to finish his day. The CEO on the other hand needs to look at the company as one big organism, every decision he makes must be rational and without emotions involved in the way, the boss holds his company in his hands instead of the company holding him.Outer-game on the other hand, is not experienced in levels/phases as it is in gradual steps, every time we try something new and uncomfortable our brains slowly develops and recognizes patterns, just like driving a car; We slowly amp up our tolerance for social pressure, which usually comes in the form of anxiety, this is our unconscious innate fear of DEATH.

My analogy for outer-game is that it’s like building muscle at the gym, we lift weights that are just slightly above our capabilities, but not so high above our muscle capabilities so that we won’t experience muscle failure (in pickup this means mental breakdown or inability to function), slowly we increase the weight and as our strength increases so does the weight gradually.

The ideal situation is one where we go out every day and approach women (preferably 5 or more a day) and every day we push our comfort zone just a little bit (in other words try new things and realize that there is no failure only learning experiences), only after enough failing and improving we reach a new plateau of inner-game which will demand that we self-examine our identity and face another layer of lack of congruence between who we are and who we are trying to become. This will force us to shift into a higher paradigm, we face our inner-demons, and move on for more glory!

What usually happens unfortunately is that we try to escape ourselves and our need to face our demons to complete the next path of our identity change, anytime we feel frustrated in the field it’s usually a lack of imbalance between our inner and outer game, we reject and resist reality, and gradually convince ourselves we can improve in this field WITHOUT facing our demons and actually changing ourselves as persons (which is exactly what plateaus are for).

“He who knows others is wise; he who knows himself is enlightened.” -Lao Tzu

In other words, the only way to improve our abilities with women is to go out and actually talk to different women, and whenever we face the next plateau in our advancement we need to look deep inside ourselves, our identity and our paradigms; and allow ourselves to find the next level of lack of congruent we have between our old and new-selves, the next level of self-exposure to the surface that we are so afraid of.If we go back to the band-aid analogy from earlier (peeling off layers of ego is like removing a band-aid), then we realize that there are basically two ways of aligning our inner-game and outer-game:

The first is to not let us lie to ourselves and really use our willpower and leverage to face our inner-demons and deceptions. This is like quickly removing a band-aid, it might hurt a lot for a few seconds, but the pain is very short and quick.

The second, slower and more painful way of reaching aliment is to keep hitting the same walls, denying, and rejecting the notion that we are not perfect, and that our sense of identity is actually standing in our way and it needs to be left behind; this will keep happening until the amount of pain and frustration which we experience from our plateau will be greater than that we will experience if we keep our former sense of identity tightly in our waist, thus the natural choice would be to deal with our lack of congruence and to let go of our former identity (to peel off our layer of ego), this is why we commonly see a newbie go out a lot and not get results for a long time, when suddenly in just one night he transforms and gets the most insane results.. This basically occurs when the balance of pain of staying the same vs the pain of transforming and peeling another layer has shifted more towards the latter.

This is why I strongly suggest to any person wanting to get better at this to focus on approaching as much as possible, staying in-set as long as possible (burning each set to the ground), while focusing on improving your weakest spots (these are most commonly related to your ego and sense of identity), the failure process is usually painful indeed and filled with a lot of missed-opportunities, but the rewards for those who persist are far greater than to those who chose to stay behind.The reason we feel frustrated and fail to really relax and enjoy our nights, both in success with women and in life in general, is because of the situation we’ve discussed of a lack of aliment between inner and outer game, we go out to improve our game and have many outer-game breakthroughs, but we use those as crutches and gimmicks while the identity and the inner-game stays left behind. The concept is still not integrated as part of our reality.

We as man sometimes feel comfortable approaching many women and failing again and again and we appear to not mind it, this is because the man who we approached as is nothing but a fictive figure which we invented using our ego, we use our imaginary and old sense of identity along with the new gimmicks we learned (previously epiphanies) and thus we don’t really feel the pain of rejection, because internally we know it was “not really us”, but an actor, and an actor CAN be rejected without pain.

Examples of “acting” through your ego/former sense of identity:

Analyzing and predicting our behavior before an approach

Thinking of ways to get the girl to react in a certain way

Behaving in an unnatural (inauthentic) way because we’ve read about it online

Not expressing my opinions and wants from fear of rejection

Hiding my feelings and thoughts because they show weakness

In summary, this state of resistance is characterized by a lack of aliment between our thoughts, words and actions. A lack of aliment between our internal state and that which we project.

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Our development in the game and as man is composed of two processes, expansion and contraction, just like yin-yang, just like every cycle of life.

Expansion: the process in-which we develop our outer-game, the trial and error phase, going out in the field and meeting women. We try things which are not yet comfortable with us, we experience a new success, learn a new technique, a new mindset, what to do, what not to do. WE GET BETTER AT OUR CRAFT.

Contraction: the process of self-examining, finding out who we really are, slowly removing the band-aid of ego and lies we have around us, shedding our skin and stepping out of our former identity (again, this equates to death for our brain). Slowly we expose our true, authentic self, which is unbreakable and static, it is impossible to change.

We experience frustration when we cut the natural cycle of expansion and contradiction, meaning we either don’t go out enough to practice, or don’t let ourselves change and hold on to our former identity. Thus getting stuck in the cycle.

The two main cases for this are either A) a person who thinks to highly of himself (“master pickup artist”) thus forcing unrealistic outer-game from him which he simply can-not deliver, or the opposite case B) in which a person thinks too little of himself and gets caught up in techniques instead of realising “I am enough”.

“I am nothing, not better than any fellow-man. yet I am enough, I’m better than all”, remember this phrase.

Termites and Termite Control – How To Stop Problem Jobs From Becoming Nightmares

Termites have a very useful role within our environment, but when they invade and attack your home, they can become a hated enemy, a source of heartache and anxiety. Every problem has a solution, and there is no need for any job turning into a nightmare. There are however, certain practices in the pest control industry that should be adopted for all inspections and treatments, and some “dodgy” operators that should be avoided like the plague!

In Australia, one house in three at some stage will become affected by termites, which is more prevalent than damage caused by fire, storm and flood combined. This article will examine how to prevent termite attack, methods of inspection, protection, control and treatment.

Termite Control

Control of pest termites involves identifying the species, locating the nest and choosing the best eradication methods. A combination of doing regular, competent building inspections in termite-prone areas, using naturally resistant or treated timbers in buildings, and installing chemical and physical soil barriers around buildings is necessary to prevent further problems.

Houses nearby may often have termite nests nearby in trees, stumps and underground but these may not contain pest species. When they do, it should be the main focus of the termite control technician to locate and treat these areas before any protection is implemented. Too often the technician will “advise” the worried homeowner that termites may be “anywhere within 100 metres” of the property and its impossible to pinpoint exactly where they may be coming from.

In my opinion, if you don’t even try to find out the origin of the problem, your chances of gaining control of the problem dramatically drop. Even if the house is surrounded by dense bushland, I think it is definitely worth the time and expense of test drilling and treating ALL trees and stumps surrounding the property within a 50-100 metre radius, because that is where most infestations originate. If it means drilling 40-60 trees or investigating all surrounding homes, isn’t that a lot better than ignoring a possible source of infestation?

Most pest control companies will not go to this extra effort, and will try to convince the client that their baiting technique or soil barrier system is designed to protect your home in all circumstances. DON’T BELIEVE THEM! Better investigations and inspections lead to better termite protection and treatments. Its only common sense to take all effort to find out the origin of the attack.

Termite Inspection of Pest Species

Termite identification in Sydney Australia is highly specialized and pest controllers need to thoroughly inspect all areas of the property before any protection or treatment is begun. This may be conducted with the following equipment:

Flashlight with bright light

This is essential and krypton bulbs give the best light for torches generally available today. LED torches, headlamps and flashlights are the next generation inspection tools and should be used when they come onto the market.

A termite sounding donger

A fiberglass rod with a small plastic ball at the end. It is designed to run along skirting boards, higher placed timbers and other exposed timbers. When it runs across termite infested timber the tone changes, indicating hollowed out timber.

A Moisture Meter

It is designed to pick up high moisture content in walls and timbers. Termites bring up moisture from the soil and into the walls and timbers.

A Termatrac microwave tracking device Termatrac is a breakthrough development in the building inspection detection of termites, invented and developed in Australia using technology similar to radar, Termatrac is the exciting answer to detecting termites through timber, plaster board, brick or masonry with no interference to the building material or termite activity. With no drilling, tapping or prodding, Termatrac is the answer to termite detection without termite defection! With Termatrac, the pest professional enjoys the advantage of accurate detection and customer peace of mind.

Box cutter & Tape

If termite infested timber is located, we may cut it with a “Stanley” knife and expose the interior of timber, identifying the species of termites then seal it back up with tape so as not to disturb the termites.

Listening Device

This listens to termite sounds in the internal of the walls. However, if you tap the wall with your hand and put your ear up to the wall you can hear the soldier termites communicate by tapping their mandibles onto the timbers.

Home Inspection

A home inspection for termites is known in Sydney Australia as a building inspection and includes a pest report and a building report. It involves a thorough visual inspection of the sub floor, roof void interior, exterior, and other areas of the property. An average house takes anywhere from one to two hours to complete. Cost varies from $160-$360 depending on the size of the house and access. This is including G.S.T. Tax

The report consists of multiple pages setting out the areas of concern and what to do to rectify problems. Digital photos are available upon request. Please remember a termite inspection report is designed to detect termites at an early stage as to reduce the amount of damage to your house. It does not stop termites. It is strongly recommended a termite inspection report is carried out at least once every twelve months and every three to six months for high risk areas.

Note: There is no household insurance that covers you for termite damage.

Termite Report Essentially a termite building inspection report is designed to:

1. Detect old damage and active termites.

2. Gives you the element of risk of infestation.

3. Gives you tips on reducing the chances of termite infestation.

4. Gives us enough information to accurately quote you on a termite treatment and to use the most appropriate method.

5. Identifies species of termites and (most importantly)

6. Educates you about termites.

Economically Important Pest Termites

Out of the 258 described termite species in Australia, only a few timber-damaging species are of concern to us. The five families that include the most common pest species in Australia are:

1. Mastotermitidae (1 pest species – Giant Termite, Mastrotermes darwinensis)

2. Kalotermitidae (several pest species of ‘dry-wood termites’, including the introduced Cryptotermes brevis)

3. Termopsidae (1 pest species – Dampwood termite, Porotermes adamsoni)

4. Rhinotermitidae (7 pest species, including Coptotermes acinaciformes)

5. Termitidae (5 pest species, including Nasutitermes walkeri)

The Giant Termite (Mastotermes darwinensis) has the greatest potential for destruction. However, it is limited to the tropical areas of northern Australia. It attacks any wood in contact with the ground including shrubs and trees, as well as paper, leather, clothing and other materials. It is a large-bodied primitive species that usually forms small colonies and has no true worker caste.

West Indian Dry-wood Termite

The introduced West Indian Dry-wood Termite (Cryptotermes brevis) is considered to be the world’s worst termite pest as it can eat even very small timber objects with few external signs of damage, can quickly take over from native termite species, can survive in quite dry conditions, and is easily transported. If it is found, it should be reported to the relevant government authority. It has been found in Brisbane and Sydney, as well as other areas on several occasions.

Most Destructive Species

However the most destructive species overall in Australia is Coptotermes acinaciformes. It is distributed throughout the continent and uses tree stumps, living trees, spaces under buildings and even walls as nesting sites. From the nest site, any wooden structure within a 100-metre radius can be attacked via underground tunnels. Although they usually need contact with soil, some nests of this termite species have even been found several floors up in city buildings or on ferries.

A common species that nests in Sydney’s coastal bushland is Nasutitermes walkeri. It forms distinctive round ball-shaped nests that are especially abundant in the years following major bushfires (as it mainly nests in stressed trees). It can also damage fences, poles and wood on the ground, but it rarely attacks buildings. This species has the largest soldiers (up to 6 mm long) of the Nasutitermes genus, with the characteristic nasute head.

High Risk Suburbs

Termite control in Sydney, Australia is particularly important in these high risk suburbs:

Castle Hill

Winston Hills

Dural Baulkham Hills

Wahroonga Frenchs

Forest Manly Epping

Carlingford Leichhardt

We service all these areas as well as Australian capital cities Brisbane, Gold Coast, Melbourne, Canberra, Adelaide, Perth, Hobart and Darwin.

Remember, if you follow all of the advice in this article, selecting a qualified Termite Expert who is aware of, and implements appropriate termite inspections, protection and treatments will help prevent a problem job from turning into a nightmare.

The Ultimate Guide to Becoming A Sensual Man – 8 Things Any Man Can Do

What does it mean to be a sensual man? There are a number of things sensual men do, routinely and naturally, that make them more sensual than the rest of their brotherhood. Some do a few of them and others do all of them but none of these men consider any of these things to be an affront to their masculinity.

Would we call them Metrosexuals, Ubersexuals, or Heteropolitans? Would we say that they’re in touch with their feminine side? Maybe. I would say that these guys are evolved. As I wrote in a blog post a couple of months ago, they are a different breed of cat. They allow themselves to freely and unabashedly express their true selves in a very sophisticated, yet authentic way. They’ve gotten out of their own way, broken through the stereotypes of maleness and refused to accept the teachings of the caveman.

It isn’t about being ego-centric, vain, self-absorbed or a walking fashion model wannabe. This is a man who has confidence in himself, who is clear about what he wants out of life, how he wants to show up for himself, his family, his lover, his friends, his colleagues and the people he encounters on a daily basis. He either has a natural predisposition toward the finer things in life or he has developed a healthy appreciation – in either case, his lifestyle is a life-of-style laced with a generosity of spirit for him and others.

Before going further, there’s a precept worth underscoring here. Men can develop their sensual side – it is a matter of mindset – it’s a decision. It does take time for the evolution to occur but the effort is worth the result.

Here are 8 things any man can do to develop your inherent sensual side.

1. Grooming Heads the List

From head to toe, a regular grooming regime is essential. Good grooming is just a habit and once you get into the swing of it, you won’t even think twice about doing it.

• A good haircut that is style forward, age appropriate and works well with your type of hair is critical. It is one of the first things people will notice about you so it is essential to keep your hair trimmed and looking sharp.

• If you want to cover grey or spruce up your natural hair color, leave it to the professionals. The extra expense is definitely worth the result.

• Use a face wash/scrub in the shower. The skin on your face is more sensitive than the rest of your body so it’s best not to use bar soap or shower gel for face cleansing. If you have a beard, keep it well trimmed and make sure you shave your neck hair. Get a good personal groomer for the nose and ears.

• Moisturize your skin after shaving. Get a good moisturizer and eye cream. Many men are buying anti-aging creams lately. Moisturizers and eye creams make a big difference with hiding fine lines and wrinkles. Don’t forget to include your neck in this routine.

• Keep your nails trimmed short and clip the cuticles. Consider the possibility of getting a manicure and pedicure once a month or so.

• Trim your eyebrows in a natural shape or go to a salon for waxing or threading.

2. Dress Appropriately For Every Occasion

You’ve heard the expression Clothes Make the Man (Mark Twain). What you wear says a lot about who you are. Again, it’s one of the first things people will notice about you. In fact, they will draw conclusions about you based on your attire. Whether you’re fashion forward in your clothing selections or not, there are certain things you need to keep in mind.

• Keep your clothing clean, pressed and neat looking. Have your shirts done professionally. Make sure the buttons aren’t broken and are sewn on securely. If the garment starts to fray or the cleaners can’t get a spot out completely, it needs to be thrown away or donated.

• Color coordinate. If you have trouble with color, invite a trusted friend over to help you pair up your shirts, ties, suits, socks, belts and shoes.

• Keep an eye on the fashion magazines to see what’s in style. Buy a few new things each month to keep your wardrobe fresh and to make you feel sharp.

• Hang up your clothes at the end of the day. A suit that hasn’t been hung properly on a good hanger will look rumpled and people will notice.

• Put some thought into dressing for an occasion. If you’re not sure what the attire should be, ask the host or hostess

• Make sure your shoes are polished and in good condition. Also, make sure your belt and shoes are the same color – don’t mix your blacks and browns.

3. Women Love a Man Who Cooks!!

Lots of guys Barbeque and that’s great but what I’m talking about here is preparing a full meal from shopping to serving.

• There are lots of cookbooks out now that have easy recipes that anyone can follow and foodnetwork.com is packed with great information and cooking tips/techniques.

• If you’re new at it, practice on yourself. When you get a recipe down pat, invite a friend over and the next thing you know you’ll be throwing dinner parties.

• Women love it when a man cooks for them. They’ll see it as thoughtful and incredibly endearing.

4. Your Home is a Reflection of You

The sensual man knows how important it is to live well. Your home may not be a penthouse but it needs to be well kept, attractively decorated and welcoming.

• If neatness doesn’t come naturally to you, consider the possibility of hiring an organization professional who will help you categorize and sort through your belongings so that everything has its place. Once you

have that tackled, you just have to practice picking up after yourself.

• Consider hiring a housekeeper to clean thoroughly at least every other week.

• Keep the dishes washed and at least in the dish rack – not sitting dirty in the sink.

• Make the bed daily and keep the towels hung neatly in the bathroom.

• If you don’t have a good sense of decorating, ask a friend to suggest some ideas or hire a decorator. If money is an issue, think about hiring a local college student from the School of Interior Design. Remember, you don’t have to do everything in one go.

5. Entertain Your Friends

Entertaining is your opportunity to share your home with your friends and do something special for them. You don’t need to wait for a special occasion, just decide it’s time for a party and start planning.

• Plan the food and drinks carefully to ensure that your guests are comfortable, well cared for and have fun (there is lots of information on the Internet to help guide your plan)

• Try to have coordinated plates, cloth napkins and nice glasses for your guests as opposed to paper and plastic.

• Buy a few candles, including candle holders to make the room warm and inviting.

• Put a candle (preferably scented) in the bathroom and make sure there are clean hand towels for your guests.

• Make sure the house is neat and clean

• Select music specifically suited for the people who will be attending.

• Unless you are throwing a big bash, make sure there is enough seating for all your guests.

6. Are You Listening?

An evolved, sophisticated man understands the art of conversation and the importance of learning more about someone else’s life by listening and asking questions. Here are some tips for perfecting the art of conversation.

• Ask thoughtful and follow-up questions to pull out more details. Listen to their answers and maintain comfortable eye contact while they’re speaking.

• Don’t interrupt

• Avoid preambles and life stories – make your point and move on

• Be careful about getting too personal, especially at a first meeting.

• Don’t engage in one-upmanship – it’s annoying

• In a group setting, don’t talk to just one person and don’t dominate the conversation.

• Think before you speak – keep your foot out of your mouth.

7. Cultural Well Roundedness

The sensual man fits in anywhere – from the Sports Arena to the Opera House. He stays up-to-date on contemporary culture, he knows what is on exhibit at the major museums, he attends the theatre as often as possible and from time to time he enjoys the Ballet, Symphony and the Opera.

• Read – it increases your vocabulary, stimulates your imagination and deepens your knowledge base enhancing your conversational skills

• Familiarize yourself with current events

• Expose yourself to what’s happening in pop culture – read top blogs, know what is popular on TV, stay current the music world and the latest movies.

• Travel for enjoyment and to learn about other cultures

8. Emotionally Speaking

Expressing and showing emotion doesn’t come naturally to most men. I learned recently that testosterone actually dampens feelings in men. So, men have to work at it but when they do, they find that they are happier and their relationships are happier too. I found the following useful tips on a website called Men’s Line Australia:

• Be aware of the sensations in your body. Emotion always manifests somewhere in the body. Anger might be experienced as a flush of heat in the face, sadness as a tightening throat, anxiety as a knot in the stomach. Practicing some forms of meditation can help you to get in touch with these sensations and learn to understand what they mean.

• When you are feeling angry, ask yourself what other emotions you might be feeling? Are you really sad underneath, or afraid?

• Take the risk of showing your vulnerability with people who you feel safe with. Give yourself permission to be a human, not a robot.

• Break the mold; ask for help when you need it.

• Learn to put words to what you are feeling.

• Try counseling. Talking with a ‘professional listener’ may help you identify the feelings behind a particular concern.

• Identifying and expressing feelings is learned behavior – it only takes practice.

How to Affect a Smooth Transition

It isn’t always easy to make changes in our lives but here are a few tips that you can employ easily to make this or any transition go more smoothly.

• Goals: Set out measurable goals complete with target dates. Start your day by rewriting and reading your goals to keep them firmly planted in the forefront of your mind. Goals are actions not wishes.

• Balance: Incorporating the sensual side of you into your lifestyle requires that you find balance among all of the demands on your time. Notice the times when you feel overwhelmed and think about what is causing it. If you can’t eliminate the stress factors involved, consider the possibility of changing the way you react to them. You have a right to your life; you are in charge of it and you always have choices on how you live. Always.

• Set priorities: You don’t have to react to every email, text or telephone call.

• Nurture yourself: Your mental and physical wellbeing is a critical element to your fulfillment. Get plenty of exercise and rest. Eat well, drink plenty of water, go for a massage, and try meditation. If you treat your body well, it will reciprocate.

• Time management: If you are a procrastinator, take a good look at the level of stress that is bringing to your life. Make a list of the things you need to get done and think of creative ways to get them accomplished. You don’t always have to do everything yourself. There are plenty of people who will handle the things you don’t want to do and it doesn’t have to cost a lot. Outsource.

• Be positive: Take a few minutes every day to think about what you’re grateful for. You can do this one at the same time you are rewriting and reading your goals. It will help you see how far you have come, appreciate what you have and inspire you to move forward to greater things.

• Love yourself: True love isn’t something that’s going to come to you someday, from someone else. It starts with you. Giving yourself the gift of becoming a more evolved, well rounded, balanced human being will open your mind, your soul and your heart.

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5 Essentials To Becoming Rich

This article tries to reveal the 5 most important things which are required for someone who wants to become rich.

People who want to become rich have always wondered what it takes to become rich. Even though there are no hard and fast rules or thumb rules which will guarantee the accumulation of wealth, there are few things which are evident in all success stories. People who become rich are not necessarily the ones who are toppers in their schools or intellectual giants. The key to becoming rich lies in the approach of a person. Many people manage to become rich not merely by chance or luck but would have done a few logical things which would have helped them get where they have reached.

The plan is the most important thing which is very crucial and often hard to come up with. A person who wants to become rich should have a well defined plan of action or a vision of how he or she aims to go about making money. Many people might not be able to come up with a plan all of a sudden. Some people would have experienced a few things out of which they have built a particular plan of action. There are also some people who have an idea which they have pursued and struck oil.

People can gather riches either by investing in an enterprise or by working in a business. Either way, it is necessary to have a plan and to oversee the income as well as the expenditure. It is very necessary to know the places from where the money is coming and also identify the places where the money is being spent. Saving money is one of the best ways of becoming rich. Hence saving is one thing that will surely help people become rich.

Analyzing the possible opportunities is another thing which is equally required. Many people who do not get any further financially are the ones who never ventured out into opportunities and never took risks. There are numerous ways by which people can make a whole lot of money. It is important to identify the avenues and work towards getting rich gradually rather than waiting for riches to find its way to you.

It is also very important to stay rich after one gets rich. The way we spend our money is one thing that most of us do not bother about. To get rich and to stay so for a considerable period of time, it is necessary to avoid wasteful expenditure.

The other most important thing to keep in mind is that one’s income should be higher than their expenditure if one plans to become rich.

To become rich seems to be the easy part sometimes. To be able to further invest your money and stay rich is the tricky bit. One has to think of these things and find ways of making the money work better for them.

Do’s and Don’ts For Becoming Famous

Everybody wants to be heard, some people want to be known but few people want to be famous. There’s a lot way ahead of those aiming for eternal fame. There’re sacrifices to be made, humiliating actions to take and most of all a lot of work to be done. It’s possible to be known by millions over time, you just have to know these few simple do’s and don’ts for success on the road to eternal fame.

Do spread the word

You can’t become famous if you don’t let other people know about your existence. Advertise yourself on online message-boards, post YouTube videos and do these things often. Internet is the network that can make mediocre guys like you and me famous. In the past it wasn’t that easy. There was this one guy in Roman times around 0BC that made a time machine, he wanted to tell people but didn’t know how, so he came to our time and told me about it and asked me to spread the word on the internet. I’m doing that right now.

Don’t go all hyper over nothing

People who are up there have fans and haters. Don’t go mad over an unhappy comment, it doesn’t matter. You know how many people talk bad about you behind your back? Millions! And that’s just for regular folks, spread over a lifetime of course.

Do work for it

Some people get famous because of pure luck. Like that YouTube guy that made that weird lightsaber video. But it’s not the kind of success you should be after. It’s so satisfying to be known for great work, for your addition to society. Believe me when you’re famous and read about a journalist talking about your work you know: I did good. Or bad depending on the journalist’s words.

Don’t put everything on the line

Yes you should never go all or nothing when it comes to fame. There can only be so much celebrities in the world, many won’t make it. You could be one of them! But probably not because you’re reading this fantastic guide. Anyway keep your day job, support your family, do the normal things while on the side you work for that golden star.

And those were my do’s and don’ts for a successful launch to the celebrity world. While you’re up there don’t forget your fans and the people that helped you to get there. By that time you have made the necessary sacrifices to become famous which includes time, money, energy and maybe even love. One more tip while we’re at it. Realize that you can’t change the past, but you can change the future.

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6 Steps to Becoming a Naturalized US Citizen

Foreign born residents living in the U.S. for at least five years have an opportunity to apply to become a naturalized U.S. citizen. Naturalization applications are handled by the Bureau of Citizenship and Immigration Services, also known as the USCIS. U.S. citizenship status will give you with certain rights:

* The right to vote in U.S. Elections

* The right to take part in federal programs (e.g. Social Security)

* The right to secure a U.S. passport

* The right to earn certain security clearances

1. You must gain admittance to the U.S. as a legally permanent resident.

What this means is that you’ll need to obtain “green card” status. There is one exception: if an applicant has served time in the U.S. military (army, navy air force, marines) during a period of active war, he can obtain naturalization status without taking the usual steps required to become a permanent citizen, as long as he lived in the U.S. prior to joining the military.

2. You must live in the U.S. continuously for Five Years After Filing for Naturalization

Once an applicant has filed for naturalization, he is expected to establish and maintain continuous residency.

3. Establish Actual Residency

When you file your naturalization petition in your state, you will need to have lived in that state prior to filing for at least three months.

4. Acquire a Basic Knowledge of U.S. Government and History

When filing a form N-400 application for naturalization, you can request study materials to help you learn what you need to know about the English language, U.S. government and history. This information will help you with the naturalization test. The test involves a Naturalization Self Test section and a section for the comprehensive Naturalization test.

5. You Must Exemplify Moral Character and an Understanding of the U.S. Constitution

6. You Must Be at Least 18 Years of Age

To qualify for naturalization, you must be at least 18 years of age at the time that you file. Exceptions are allowed for the children of permanent residents.

When your application is approved, applicants are asked to take a formal oath of allegiance to the United States rejecting allegiance to other parties and states.

Fitzgerald’s The Great Gatsby: Becoming Tom’s Anima Woman

In F. Scott Fitzgerald’s novel The Great Gatsby, published in 1925, Daisy Buchanan and her husband Tom live in the fashionably affluent East Egg off Long Island Sound. While Tom cannot move past his football days in New Haven, full of machismo and bravado and as Nick describes him, forever seeking “the dramatic turbulence of some irrecoverable football game,” Daisy languishes in the sultry summer heat of New York with little to occupy her time or her thoughts. It is into this setting that her second cousin Nick Caraway re-enters her life, taking a position as a bond salesman in New York, and with him, also returning to her life, is his neighbor, Daisy’s former impoverished lover Jay Gatsby, now a wealthy but illicit entrepreneur. Earlier Daisy had married Tom because, as she tells Gatsby, “Rich girls don’t marry poor boys.” At the outset of their marriage, Tom began openly entertaining a series of mistresses, even taking Nick on an excursion to visit his current diversion Myrtle Wilson. Daisy is unhappy but relatively quiet about it, playing “the little fool,” a role to which anima women feel resigned. Tom recognizes Daisy’s need to maintain her life of ease and pleasure surrounded by wealth and position, which makes it easier for him to control her. He cuts her off abruptly when he’s no longer interested in listening to her; he criticizes her choice of words; he responds to her desires with contempt. Tom is conspicuously absent for the birth of their child, and the disillusioned Daisy admits to Nick, “I’m glad it’s a girl. And I hope she’ll be a fool–that’s the best a girl can be in this world, a beautiful little fool.” Tom’s paternal stance with the childlike Daisy justifies his habit of going “off on a spree,” but in order to regain her trust, he says he always comes back and in his heart he loves her.

Killing the Mistress Again

Gatsby becomes part of Daisy and Tom’s social circle, but when Tom accuses him of trying to steal his wife away, a vicious argument ensues, and in a moment of rage and desperation, Daisy goes off with Gatsby, driving his car. They pass Wilson’s garage, Tom’s mistress Myrtle comes running out to them, and Daisy swerves toward her, killing her instantly. Afterward Nick looks at Daisy and Tom through the window of their great mansion on East Egg as they sit across the kitchen table from each other. Nick says, “There was an unmistakable air of natural intimacy about the picture and anybody would have said they were conspiring together.” In Daisy’s artificial but protective world, Tom convinces Myrtle’s husband that it is Gatsby who was the lover and Gatsby who was the one driving the death car. A distraught George shoots Gatsby before turning the gun on himself. Daisy and Tom leave for an extended holiday, and only Nick and Gatsby’s father attend the funeral. Tom proclaims his grief to Nick for the loss of his mistress Myrtle when he looks at the box of dog biscuits, but it is short lived. Myrtle is expendable and her death as well as Gatsby’s is soon treated as just a remnant of their careless past that, as Nick observes, they leave behind for other people to clean up.

Tom’s Anima Woman

Daisy manipulates her actions with Gatsby to be the woman he imagines, the one he has imagined for five years. Yet when she must confront the risk of losing Tom and the lifestyle he represents, and even more so the risk of paying for the hit-and-run death of Tom’s mistress, she once again settles into the role that reflects Tom’s anima. Her compliance is the price she agrees to pay for security. She is not prepared to give up the advantages she has with Tom, even if it means losing the romantic illusion of Gatsby. She cannot do otherwise. She must be Tom’s childlike Daisy who needs him, regardless of his scornful treatment of her, and therefore Gatsby must die to restore their relationship, emotionally unhealthy as it is. This anima woman cannot find her own intrinsic value when she has built a life so utterly dependent upon materialism, the theme of much of Fitzgerald’s jazz age writing.

Pro’s and Con’s of Becoming a Technical Writer

A technical writer is one who writes or rewrites technical pieces into a simpler form which can be easily understood by an average person. To become a technical writer, you would need to have the passion for writing and the liking for different industries, technical terms, and technology and so on. Like every other career, there are always two sides to becoming a technical writer, the pros and the cons.

The upside of this career is that it is currently at high demand; hence jobs are readily available in many different sectors. Also, this jobs yields a good pay and it increases with experience. On an average, a good and well experienced technical writer would be able to make a ballpark figure of about $90,000 a year.

In addition to that, another contributing factor to the pro list of this career is that it comes with many opportunities to discover the various gadgets, machinery, terms and technology advancements of our current times. This job would give you a great amount of exposure which would not only widen your general knowledge but allow you to be one of the first few to know about new products and services. Furthermore, by taking up this job, you would have the chance to pick the method of your job. Be it the 9-5 job at the desk or if you find that too mundane you could always opt for a job as a freelancer.

The downside of this job is that you would have to constantly make room for rejection. The writing world is one that is tough and competitive and you could easily be turned down if another person has got more experience or a better education. Besides that, your work would be one that leads you to live a mundane and lonely work lifestyle. This is so because you would be required to spend many hours alone writing and editing your article.

All jobs have got their ups and downs and it is up to you to weigh them out and make your decision based on that. So consider these points and take your career to the path your heart calls for.

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