The Many Different Kinds Of Kisses are endless in potential possibilities but that does not mean that they will be useful or even appreciated. Much of what makes for a great relationship is being able to sense the moment. Being able to be fully aware of what the moment demands and being able to respond accordingly. The different methods of lip-locking can be best applied when the moment itself demands or dictates a particular kind of kiss.
Knowing the appropriate way to respond to the moment can help to avoid many arguments or disagreements in any relationship. For the most part women tend to be more aware of moments and the right responses but nothing is without exception. Those men who do learn to understand others, also learn the truly awesome power that a quality kiss can have and the level personal trust that is involved.
Believe it or not it is a skill to know how to be aware and to become sensitive to the actual moment itself and like any other skill it can be learned. However it takes a lot of practice and a very sincere effort. The best advice on learning how to utilize ‘moment awareness’ would have to be To Give and To Constantly be Thinking of Others.
This is the best way to achieve your goal. If you can seize the moment and look around you noticing every minute detail and how others are reacting, then you are well on your way heading in the right direction. Only by constantly thinking of others, wanting to serve them as well as help them whole-heartedly will you begin to become intuitive to their needs.
That is what kissing is all about, it is about giving of yourself. Kisses are a very intimate and personal way of communicating. There is a lot of power in kissing, and all kisses have a meaning of their own.
So a good beginning to learning more about this would be to know and understand exactly what they are. So here are “The Top Ten Most Common Kinds of Kissing.” In no particular order they are as follows:
Gentle- Soft, slow, a caress of lips and tongues. Eyes closed, if and when they do open carefully keeping the lids lowered as much as possible. The two words most fit to describe the Gentle kiss would be Careful and Soft
Passionate- Medium to hard. Movement, pressure, using hands to caress all over the body beginning with the face. You should always begin by placing your hands on the face and then work your way down the neck to other parts of the body.
Touching a persons’ face is about trust.
A) This is an incredibly private and intimate gesture that is all about trust. So it must be done carefully. A persons face is very psychologically connected to who they are personally. So great care should be taken. Do not just slap your hands right on their face and start feeling around. You must proceed with caution and always provide noticeable and unmistakable warning signs and gestures.
B) You should begin at the back of their head while your kissing them and maybe slowly curve your hand from the side above their ear. Just then curl your hand and at first use the back of your fingers to graze their cheek. After that you can turn your hand(s) around and press your fingers(very gently) to their face and trace your way up to their forehead and opening your fingers if possible run your fingers through their hair.
Hard- A hard smooch is flexible when it comes to speed. They can be slow or fast but they are always deep in the mouth. Licking the tongue from as Far Back into the other persons mouth as it will go. This requires a lot of pressure which is why it is termed as hard. Then slowly licking the length of the tongue from back to the front tip.
Deep- A deep kiss is generally the exact same as the one mentioned above. Although it can be soft too, as well as taking one other variations.
The Caring- This one kind of bothers me personally but there is nothing wrong with it. This is the one that is usually given when sending someone off to work or school. It is the one that says; “Honey I love you your great do not forget your lunch, and be sure to wear your seatbelt.”
The Daring- This one is always the first one between any two people It is exciting and scary all at the same time. But it can also be when you lay one on all of a sudden and/or a stranger. Whenever there is risk involved.
The Sensual- Sexy is the first word that comes to mind. It is a great way to describe sensuality and vice-versa. It is unique in that not everything sexy is sensual but pretty much everything sensual is sexy. Sensuality is very wet, very passionate and instantaneously creative. Like when your partner or you are upside down and then you begin kissing. This is sensual, like chocolate and strawberries sensuality and sexuality just seem to go together.
The Pitiful- Unfortunately there are such things as pity kisses. They ring of the “Awe, mom do I have to.” These take place whenever there is a complete lack of enthusiasm for whatever reason. Usually there is an almost Hollywood type of dialogue surrounding these. Like when someone says “Kiss me” and then afterwards they reply, “No. I mean really kiss me.”
The Crazy- This one is all over the place. For two teenagers I guess this is fine but for the most part this is the one you want to avoid. When he goes left she goes right. Nothing is in sync. No one seems to be on the right page at the same time. It can also be a bad moment too. Crazy is as crazy does.
The I love You- Dreamy. Also delicate in every sense of the word. This is the one that counts and tries to say too much. The one way to make sure things are getting more serious or to find out if they are even heading in this direction is by an I love you kiss. It is very telling. Whether it works or not can mean so many things.
The farewell- Seems appropriate to end on the goodbye kiss. This can be of many varieties as well but for many it is a longing kind of lip locking. It can say a lot of things really. Sometimes it says; “I do not want you to go but you are still mine.”
As mentioned earlier there are many more different kinds of kissing these are just a small sampling of the limitless list of smooches. The many kinds of kisses are as varied as the people who give and receive them.
Whenever you kiss someone in the right moment and in just the right way you seem to know the moment itself is alive with your connection. Sometimes, it feels as though for those few precious moments the world has now become aware of you, in place of you being constantly aware of the world.
