All too often in today’s fast paced microwave society the sweet savor of things that take time is forgotten. This is all too true when it comes to sexual encounters.
When a “quickie” has become the regular routine sex can become boring and mundane. For sex to be truly fulfilling, both partners need to experience ultimate pleasure and satisfaction. Nothing is sure to create an atmosphere where this can take place than a slow, deliberate seduction. A sexual encounter with someone who has been properly seduced is worth more than one hundred encounters with a cold fish.
Even when a couple has been together for a long time, it is important to take the time for a proper seduction as often as possible. Obviously, busy schedules and other factors make a quickie every now and then necessary and even fun, but a sweet, slow seduction every now and then will keep the fire burning and help keep passion alive in a relationship.
A true seduction begins long before the anticipated sex act. It begins with the invitation to the date. Whether this is to be a first encounter or you have been married for 20 years, setting up the mood of the evening begins with the invitation.
This can be done quite effectively with a short note or card. A little cologne spritzed on the card helps to get the pheromones working for you hours before the date begins. The note does not need to be overly romantic or wordy to get the job done. In fact, sometimes brevity can work in your favor. It might be as simple as, “Dinner tonight, Pick you up at 7:00pm, Wear heals”. This will get the imagination rolling and the seduction has begun.
By the time the date begins, a thousand sexy scenarios have already been played out in each partner’s mind and the juices have begun to flow. The traditional flowers and chocolate may seem trite, but consider that there is scientific evidence to back up their value in the art of seduction. Chocolate has the same effect on a woman’s hormones as being in love, which is the right balance for the perfect sexual encounter and flowers make her feel appreciated and loved, which makes her more open to expressing herself sexually.
The next aspect of the seduction is done entirely with words. Your job at this point is to make her feel like she is the most beautiful and wonderful woman on earth. It is absolutely vital that you don’t come across as wanting sex at this point.
You want her to feel like you are happy just to be in her presence. You almost want to come across and not wanting sex so you can make her want it first. Touch, should be used subtly. A gentle brush of your hand across her leg, flirty but not overtly sexual at this point.
Once the date has progressed to being alone where the final act can begin things start to really heat up. Kiss just enough to make her want more and then pull back. Touch just a little and then pull back. When she grabs you and pulls you towards her, you will know she is really ready and then the fun can begin.
The art of seduction will not only provide the ultimate in sexual satisfaction for both you and your partner, it will also create lasting memories that can bond you together forever.
