A lot of men that are virgins have a lot of tension about their virginity and how long they are going to last in bed. They fear being humiliated and ashamed of their lack of sexual experience. However, in reality, if their first times are approached properly, they can be very fulfilling and set the precedent for an amazing sex life. Here are a few words on why being a virgin doesn’t have to be a bad thing and how you can last longer in bed your first time.

• Let the woman know you’re a virgin. Guys, women are not cruel, and if your partner knows that you are a virgin, she will most likely help you ease your sexual issues. Letting the woman know also helps her to understand not to expect too much from you, as if you didn’t she might be disappointed thinking that you are sexually experience. If you let your partner know the deal, they will be more than happy to ease your tension and maybe even help you last longer your first time.
• Virgins start out on a clean slate. Some guys that suffer from premature ejaculation have the problem because their early sexual experiences were rushed and/or secretive. Their bodies got used to rushing sex that they now suffer from premature ejaculation because of improper past experiences. Starting out with the right mindset will help you to last longer your first time, and every other time after that.
• Understand that sex is no big deal. Many men, myself included, before being virgins thought of sex as a grand accomplishment – and this creates unnecessary drama, tension, nervousness and worry. If you have a relaxed attitude going into sex, you’ll have a more pleasurable experience and probably last longer your first time.