Logic tells you that it should be obvious to any woman when a man has left her for good but for some reason reality is different. Some men have the capacity to leave a woman for good but to still make her think that they have not left. Is there an ex-boyfriend in your life who makes you believe that he is still in your life even though you cannot quite pin him down? It seems that he is in your life without actually being part of your life. What are the signs that he is gone for good?

i. You are making ALL the effort to hook up with him. A man who has left you for good will talk to you when you call him up or entertain you when you visit BUT he will never ever call you back or visit you. He will be polite when you talk and he may even promise to call you soon or to meet with you sometime in the future but you will wait forever for that promised call as he has simply moved on. He confuses you because he is nice and speaks warmly but his deeds (or lack of them) tell you that he is actually gone for good from you. He has disconnected his communication from you.

ii. He isn’t really interested in you and your life. A man who is gone for good is simply not interested in you and what you are up to. He may make polite conversation when you meet or when you make the effort but you will notice that he has no real interest in you. He doesn’t ask questions about your life and if you do talk about yourself then you quickly realize that he isn’t really listening to you. The result of talking to him about you is similar to you talking to a brick wall as there is simply no interest or engagement from him. He has emotionally disconnected from you.

iii. He has zero involvement in your life. A man who is gone for good will have very little interaction with you. His life will be totally separate from you… even when you are still in the same social circle. His life and what he is involved in will be a mystery to you unless you are one of those stalker types as he keeps himself and his life separate from you. He has socially disconnected from you.

A man who is gone for good has totally disconnected from you emotionally, socially and in his communication. If you see this disconnect then realize that he is actually gone for good!