You have hired an attorney, maybe you have been to mediation, and now you are going to your first divorce hearing. It might be a hearing for temporary custody or temporary alimony or it could be that you have skipped the temporary hearings and you are going straight to trial on custody or support. Either way, I’m sure you are nervous and a little unsure about what is going to happen. Here are 5 Tips on how to keep your cool during a court hearing or trial.

1. Breathe. I know this one may seem silly but people have a tendency to hold their breath when they are nervous or scared. The last thing you want to do during your hearing is pass out. Breathe in through your nose and out softly through your mouth. No one will be able to tell you are doing this and it will help lower your blood pressure and make you feel calm.
2. Dress nicely but wear something that is comfortable for you. If you aren’t a three-piece suit kind of guy, your first court hearing isn’t the place to try out a new suit. For men, slacks and a dress shirt are normally fine. For women, a blouse and slacks or skirt will be fine. Remember the courtroom can be cold or hot, so wear a jacket or sweater that you can take off during breaks if things get too hot.
3. Don’t sweat the small stuff. I know it’s hard when you are listening to your soon-to-be ex spouse saying snide things about you on the witness stand but keep your composure. It’s likely that much of what he/she is saying won’t make a difference to the judge.
4. Drink plenty of water. Staying hydrated is especially important when you are nervous or scared. Often times the court staff will put water and cups on the table for you but if they don’t get a sip from the water fountain during breaks. It also doesn’t hurt to bring a healthy snack such as a granola bar that you can eat during a break if you don’t have time for a real lunch. A day in court can be surprisingly exhausting. Fueling your body can make it a bit easier.
5. Be ready. Before you ever get into a courtroom hearing you should talk with your attorney about what is going to happen and what you need to do to be prepared. Sometimes attorneys who have done this a hundred times forget the small stuff that may leave you feeling unprepared. Things such as which side goes first? (usually the plaintiff) And, why does the judge call the attorneys up to where he sits? (usually to make an evidentiary ruling but sometimes just to ask about an unrelated matter) Make a list of questions and bring it with you to talk with your divorce lawyer several days before your hearing. Knowing the procedural parts of the hearing will make you more comfortable when you are actually in the courtroom.

Following these 5 Tips won’t guarantee you success in the courtroom but they will make your first court hearing a little easier for you.

Growing up, romances were considered the worse books to read in my house. At least certain romances were. Chick lit and high school romances were acceptable to read on occasion and classics were always fine. But traditional romances with a man and a woman embracing on the cover? Those were trashy, poorly written, and only worth reading for the sex scenes which probably made up at least half of the book’s contents.

After a certain age, I was allowed to read whatever book I wanted to, but romances were still looked down upon as the least valuable genre. However, by the time I hit middle school, romance novels were just too tempting.

Since they’re available at every place ever that sells secondhand books, it wasn’t hard for me to find romances and form my own opinions about romances. And it wasn’t long before I really liked them, so much that I started my own blog to review just them. And millions of other readers love them just as much.

There are a lot of stereotypes involving avid romance readers, like desperate spinsters, lonely women, and curious teenage girls. But the truth is, the majority of romance readers are college educated women who are married and have fulfilling lives. So even though there is a level of escapism, there’s a lot more to the appeal of romance than that.

Many women, myself included, like it for the positive messages in the books. The heroine almost always has insecurities about her body or her wits or personality and yet the hero is still completely enraptured by her. For instance, in Lord Braybrooke’s Penniless Bride by Elizabeth Rolls, Christina Daventry is incredibly insecure about her financial means, looks, and heritage. As the bastard daughter of a nobleman, she is only one wrong move away from being on the streets. However, somehow she captures the heart of Lord Braybrooke without even really trying. While people could chalk it up to the fact that she’s really beautiful without even knowing it, that’s not true in all romances. In Morning Comes Softly by DebbieMacomber, Montana rancher Travis Thompson marries a woman he doesn’t think it beautiful in the slightest. However, he ends up falling in love with her anyway. While not everyone thinks finding love is the ultimate goal in life, in romance books, it means happiness. Romance books say that everyone can find happiness without changing who they are.

While the positive message is attractive to readers of all ages, others, especially teenagers, have another reason to read romances.

“They help me study for SATs,” a friend once told me, laughing. “It’s strange, but where else am I going to read words like florid, staccato, and amorous outside of vocab exercises and classics?”

She had a point. Despite my family’s thought that all romances are poorly written, I have noticed that I need to turn to the dictionary with them more than any other genre. It’s not so much that they are trying to hard to be ‘intellectual’. It’s more that there is a lot of emotion in romance books, even more than other genre because the main storyline is an emotional connection. Sometimes, ‘happy’, ‘sad’, and ‘angry’ just doesn’t cut it so the writer turns to bigger and less-used words to describe their characters and their settings. While this isn’t really a reason to read romance books, it is a bonus for some people. I know I’m not the only one who thinks so. In the guidance counselor office at my school were some romance books with the SAT study material that had been picked out for their vocab usage.

And of course, plenty of people read romance for escapism. Many like the idea of a man completely devoted and focused on them, without the distractions of social media, sports, or work. Some compare reading romance novels to foreplay because in romance books, the women always have the men’s full attention, which is also true for foreplay. For those in the teenage crowd, they like experiencing romance in the books because they are curious or their own love life is lack-luster from slim pickings at their school. But even those satisfied with their love lives love romance books for escapism because they don’t just show an ideal relationship. They also show an ideal world, where there’s always a happy ending, family reunions are fun without the stress, and bad hair days are once in a blue moon. Even dystopian worlds are considered ideal, because they are full of excitement and danger, unlike our usual, monotonous yet safe lives.

No matter what your reason is for loving romance, if you are as avid a reader as I am, you probably burn through the books easily. Sometimes I can read as many as four of them a month. Actually romance readers read more than readers of every other genre. Scribd actually had to remove the majority of their romances because the cost of the books the readers were reading exceeded the amount they were getting in subscriptions. However, it’s often hit or miss on if the romance is good or not. Even the tight genres provided by Harlequin and Silhouette can have a few duds in a brand you normally like.

Men’s personalities may differ, and therefore, what one man may find attractive in a woman, may not be the same for another man. That is why it is very crucial to comprehend that a man may actually look at a woman in two opposing views.

First, that the woman is someone he can have a sexual partnership with; and second, that the woman is the type he can marry and make his lifetime partner. And for you to be considered by your man as the one for marriage, make sure you follow these tips for discovering “what do men find attractive in women”?

Attitude or Aura – First, a man would always look at the attitude or aura of a woman. The way a woman smiles is very important for most men, because that serves as their indicator whether a woman is a happy going one or a melancholic one that easily gets down and depressed. And scientifically speaking, with a woman’s smile, there are love hormones that are released from the man. Most of them, in fact, have that smile imprinted on their minds and so in times that you are not together, he only has to close his eyes, and he will see that smile which makes him fall in love with you again.

Femininity And Fragility – Men just cannot help but fall for women who seem to be fragile and so feminine. Men like it when their women are so soft-spoken, caring and kind-hearted. However, do not mistaken femininity as something that shows weakness or independence, or worse, insecurity. What men want are women who although appearing to be feminine, fragile and so delicate, can project themselves with so much confidence and grace.

Soft Voice – Another factor that would answer your question of “what do men find attractive in women”? is the voice of a woman. Men tend to be drawn or like being pulled by a magnet, when the woman talks so softly and sweetly to them. Women with soft and high-pitched voice are what usually attract men; while those with very loud and hard voice are those that usually turn men off and shoo them away.

Sense of humor – Men just love women who can make them laugh or laugh at the jokes they crack. It does not have to be laughing at every joke your man will crack, but sincerely laughing at those that you really find amusing. Men usually long for this trait in women, because they feel that the women can understand them better if they are laughing with them.

Simplicity – What is more, men have great tendencies to get deeply attracted to women who do not think so much of material things. Men adore simplicity in women. Women who wear to much makeup on their face can be a real turn off for these men, not to mention the wearing of too much jewelry. In plain words, high-maintenance women are a definite turn-off for most men. For men, the simpler ones are the kind of women they will bring to the altar from marriage.

“The real blossoming of Coleridge’s (1772-1834) poetical genius was brief indeed, but the fruit of it was rich and wonderful.” (Albert, 2002)

The poems of Coleridge is characterized by intense creative power, over which he exercises a complete and consummate control. The poem ‘Frost at Midnight’ is pervaded by the poet’s unmistakable artistic sense.

Theme Having been blessed with a son in 1796, Coleridge composed the poem soon after and while doing so, the memory of his own childhood days comes back to him. The poet is keen that quite unlike him, his son should grow up as a child amidst nature and be able to imbibe all that nature has to teach him. His son should not be a prisoner in a city dwelling from where he can not see anything except the dimmed stars and a dirty sky.

Summary

The poet’s little son is quietly sleeping nearby the fire. Everybody else is also asleep on the silent night. The poet alone is awake sitting close to the fire. The silence is so complete that the poet can not think clearly save the momentary call of an owl after which the heavy, disturbing silence descends once again. The iron bars and flaps in the fireplace shakes indeterminately while the small blue flames of the fire flickers softly licking the grate. It seems to Coleridge that the moving flames and he are the only things alive in the silent world.

The poet becomes reminiscent of his school days when he used to gaze at the bars dreamily thinking about his birthplace. The church bell would be softly ringing in his ears from the past. This was the only music he knew when he was in the village. He would be preoccupied with the sound of the bells and his birthplace throughout the morning the next day at school but worried also at the same time lest the strict headmaster should pass by. The words on the pages of the open book would begin to swim before his eyes in spite of his trying hard to concentrate on the lesson. When sometimes the door of the class room opened a little, his face would wear a look of disappointment because the person who would enter would be neither his aunt nor his sister with whom he used to play.

The breathing of the poet’s little son, now quite audible in the absolute quiet in the dead of night, cradled next to him, seem to fill the empty spaces in his thoughts. The poet is delighted that his child will be frolicking around hilly areas under the open sky. The innocent wisdom of the child would make him communicate with the sights and sounds of nature in his own way and God will make his presence felt in the child’s soul. The poet hopes that such a childhood will mould his son’s spirit in such a manner that he will realize one day that nature is but a subtle manifestation of God Himself.

It is the poet’s fervent hope that his son will groom himself to learn all the seasons, be it the lush greens of the summer or the utter cold of the winter when dew drops get frozen on the roof.

So what is cunnilingus? You may not be familiar with the word but most of you are definitely familiar with the act. Cunnilingus is defined as the act or practice of orally stimulating the female genitals. In other words it is the scientific term for when a man performs oral sex or “goes down” on a woman.

Cunnilingus can make a woman explode into multiple orgasms when done right. So it makes sense that some refer to it as the fine art of sex using the mouth and tongue. However it usually takes a skilled lover to lead their partner to orgasm orally.

Most women require clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm and find it difficult from penetration alone. Hence the biggest benefit of oral sex is you can directly stimulate the clitoris with your tongue. Do this right and you will have your lover writhing in ecstasy and begging you for more.

It’s all about technique

Take it nice and slow by kissing your partner and slowly working your way down her body. Gently kiss and caress your partner’s breasts using your hands and mouth. Then inch by inch slowly glide your tongue down her stomach until you reach her hips.

Increase her anticipation by stopping here to softly graze your lips over and between her hip bones. Move from one side to the other teasing her by licking and lightly blowing on her lower stomach. Then begin to kiss and stroke her inner thighs, one of the tenderest spots on a woman’s body.

As her excitement intensifies her breathing will quicken. This is your cue – now it’s time for things to really get started. First spread the outer folds of her vagina with one of your hands and use the other to find her clitoris. Keep in mind that the clitoris is composed of 8000 nerve fibers making it the most sensitive spot on the entire female body so approach it slowly and gently.

Start to softly touch your partner by coming close to her clitoris then slightly pulling away. This teasing will excite and arouse her even further. Now spread her legs gently and slowly.

Continue to caress the clitoris and when it gets harder use your tongue to separate the inner vaginal lips by running your tongue up and down between the layers of the flesh. Now begin to softly lick the clitoris. When you sense that she’s getting closer to reaching orgasm, make your lips into an O and take her clitoris into your mouth. Suck her gently at first slowly increasing the intensity as you suck her harder.

There are other things you can do while continuing to lick and suck the clitoris. Women also enjoy additional stimulation such as using your finger to penetrate their vagina or stimulating the erogenous zone at the top of her vagina.

The key to getting your partner to orgasm from oral sex is paying attention. Be guided by changes in her breathing and any sounds of pleasure she might make. If you’re not sure if she likes what you are doing ask her.

There is no doubt that a deep, strong masculine voice is really hot and women love their men to have such a voice. No doubt there have always been a mad rush of people who want to change the way their sound, by improving their voice quality. The best way to improve your voice quality is to deepen it and make it a little bit raspy or timber.

If you were born with an over sized Adams apple, then you will naturally get a deep strong and sexy Masculine voice tone! That would mean you inherited that voice quality, and you should thank your parents for that. However not everyone is lucky to be born with such a voice. This does not however mean that they will get stocked with a high-pitched voice. There are always things you can do to change the way you sound and improve your tone, but you need to follow the correct tips and tricks for doing this. This article will give you some few and effective tips on How to Make Your Voice Masculine and Sound Really Good to listen to.

1 – First off, if you want to have a strong masculine voice, you should always speak slowly, Speak softly, don’t talk through your nose, Exhale slowly while you are speaking and never you underestimate the power of speaking softly and steadily. Also your posture has a lot to do with your voice tone. Make sure you also strengthen your neck muscles with effective neck exercises.

2 – There is also this great and effective deep voice training exercise that can give you that good masculine voice you have always wanted to have and here we go:

– Talking with a masculine voice is nothing but a breathing game!

– Take a full breath and fill your lungs fully

– Hold that breathe for some time in there.

– Then, from your lowest pitch, breathe out loudly with a slow speed saying ha ha ha ha, and make sure it’s only heard as HA.

– Do this exercise everyday for twenty minutes or so.

You should also know that there are many more tips out there which you can use and even voice training programs which you can download and follow the professional recommendations in them. So if these tips, for some reason do not work for you, you should try out other deep voice training methods to get that masculine voice tone you have always wanted to have.

When people think the Velvets / Lou Reed, they often think noise and craziness. Some of their best known works, or most infamous works, are scrawled masterpieces, loud and in your face: Sister Ray, Waiting For My Man, Metal Music… However, the Lou and the Velvets also pushed envelopes on the other end of the spectrum, penning some of the greatest subdued songs ever recorded. Here is my top list of soft works of genius:

5) Vanishing Act — Lou Reed

The Raven

This song is really beautiful, arguably the softest song that Lou ever did. It starts out with just single, sustained piano notes. Then, Lou starts singing a repetitive melody very softly in his gruff voice. The effect is incredibly intimate, possibly too much so. I’m not a huge fan of all the spit-y sounds, it sounds like we’re hearing Lou Reed sing from inside his mouth. Also, it really builds at the end, and I’m not really hugely into the sweeping strings at the end. But the meat of this song is incredibly beautiful, fragile, moving.

4) Candy Says — The Velvet Underground

Eponymous

This song is just a gorgeous song with a lilting melody. What needs to be appreciated is that the Velvets blazed their own sound in so many different spectrums. They also blazed their own sound with soft songs, featuring instantly recognizable aspects like the softly chiming clean guitars in high registers, repetitive rhythms and subdued drums. See other great soft velvets songs like ‘Sunday Morning’ and ‘Pale Blue Eyes’.

3) Turning Time Around — Lou Reed

Ecstasy

This song is some late period brilliance with a very intimate feel. It has a really pillow-talk vibe, which is surprisingly not a bad thing! It features some of Lou’s most interesting lyrics, at once tender and poetic, philosophical and personal. And the feeling is gorgeous, it messes with your perception of time, slowing the world down a bit, as befits the title.

2) The Gift — The Velvet Underground

White Light White Heat

This is a strange, captivating and unsettling story about an obsessive romance that ends very badly. It stands out from the Velvets other soft tracks in that the music is supplying jagged and angular ambiance to the weird story happening. Really a singular piece of the Velvet’s canon.

1) Sunday Morning — The Velvet Underground

The Velvet Underground and Nico

This song, the first off of the Velvet’s first album, is a gorgeous swoon through and through, replete with Baroque instrumentation, beautiful pop melody… Simply irresistible, an amazing starting point to one of the most influential albums ever made.

More often in the world of relationships, it is the men who cheat, rather than the fairer sex. Due to several factors, men are much more likely to cheat than women, and prevention is better than cure. Sometimes when he begins cheating, there will be no “cure”. So take actions quickly to prevent cheating from ever happening.

Men can find excuses to cheat if they like, so examine the different factors that may lead them to cheat. The most common excuse is lack of understanding, or rather communication. It seems that the “other woman” always communicate better. They know how to encourage and show support more than the wife or the current girlfriend. Perhaps the woman should try to understand the man’s point of view in any argument. In any argument, seek to understand, not to win. The voice must not raised, just speak softly what you feel. Even if he raises his voice, speak softly; he may realise how gentle and gracious you are. Understanding each other leads to a stronger bond, and if the bond is cherished, the man will never cheat on her. Remember men will prefer “gentle” over “strong” every time.

In most cases, men are more confident than women. Sometimes that confidence grows too much that he believe he ca have more than one woman. The law does not prohibit him form having 2 girlfriends either. This will be especially likely if he is financially sound or even rich. Being rich has 2 effects: The first is he will develop great confidence. The second is that girls will flock to him. Since ancient times, women have been looking for rich men to marry.

Sex life is another factor to consider. When a man find that he does not have sex as frequently as he likes, his mind to wander and look for other girls to have sex with. It is not the “quality” of sex that matters; it’s the frequency that he is concerned with. So do not reject the requests too much times. But do remember it’s a mutual pleasure, so if you really do not feel like it, voice it out and let him understand. Explanation works much better than excuses.

The last factor would be one that can be best described as “herd mentality”. Perhaps one of his friends is double-timing and he tells your man how fun, exciting it is and how much he is enjoying himself. Bad company is one of the reasons many men do bad. This is a sort of situation you can help, for men are very loyal to their friends and your disapproval of his friend will be met with anger.

The best way to avoid all these is to understand each other well. When love is very strong, he will only have you, and cheating will not be found in his dictionary.

There are a huge number of skills that fly fishers can master over their lifetime, but only ten are really important:

1. Stealth. The main reason why people don’t catch fish is a lack of stealth. Even if fish don’t bolt for cover, they will stop feeding if they see, hear or sense your presence. Remember to hide your shape, shadow, shine, silhouette and movement. You should also talk quietly and walk softly as vibrations can travel through the water and disturb the fish.

2. Delicate Casting. Long distance casts are not essential and rarely allow fly fishers to catch more fish. What is essential is the art of casting delicately so the fly lands on the water as softly as possible. Delicate casts of 20 feet will give the best chance of catching fish.

3. Ambidextrous Casting. If you can only cast delicately with one hand then you are cutting your opportunities to catch fish by 50%. It is not essential to be a master caster with both hands but you should at least be able to do a roll cast or basic overhead cast with your weak hand.

4. Knots. You only need to know three, but they need to be tied well to avoid disaster. The knots are: tippet to hook, tippet to leader, and leader to line. Buy a book and practice in the evenings.

5. Observation Skills. Fly fishers must master the art and science of observation. Divide water up into blocks and search each block thoroughly and logically. Do NOT just cast a glance and move on – really take the time to look properly.

6. Fly Selection. It is important to choose the right type of fly for the conditions you are fishing. There is no point in fishing a pattern that the fish is not expecting to see.

7. Striking. Quick and firm is the rule. Do not jerk or jolt as this will snap the tippet.

8. Patience and Discipline. Fly fishers must learn to be patient and must always maintain discipline. Don’t get flustered when you see a large trout rising. Use stealth, select the right fly, test your knots and cast delicately! If the fish swims off before you are ready, then so be it.

9. Playing Fish. Stay hidden and always keep the line tight. Direct the fish where you want it to go and don’t let it play you.

10. Tippet Selection. Choose a tippet that is too light and the fish will break it. Choose one that is too heavy and the fish will see it and refuse to take. My general rule is choose a breaking strain about the same weight as the largest fish you expect to encounter. If the water is particularly clear, then go slightly lighter.

So, you want to know some sexual moves on how to turn her on, right? Let’s get going. Here are your secret sexual secrets:

“Turn Her On” Tip No. 1 => Discover The Nape Of Her Neck

Ask just about any woman and she’ll tell you. There’s just SOMETHING about giving the nape of her neck attention that drives her wild.

All you really have to do is get close to her and breathe on it, actually…even (and especially) subtly.

In fact, you can softly breathe on the side of her neck, the front of her neck OR the back of her neck. It drives women absolutely nuts…in a very good way.

If she smells great, so much the better. Enjoy that, and she’ll enjoy the fact that you’re enjoying it.

And if you go head and softly kiss her there a few seconds later, expect her to giggle and squirm a little.

But here’s the clincher.

Find the very spot on the back of her neck where her hairline ends. On most women there’s just a small bit of “peach fuzz” right there. Lift her hair up, if necessary and bite it. In fact, bite it right off.

“Turn Her On” Tip No. 2 => Turn Into A Vampire…Temporarily

OK, while we’re visiting about a woman’s neck here, I’ve got to bring this up.

I’m all but certain that you’re as underwhelmed by the “Twilight” flicks as I am, but let’s face it…for some crazy reason women are–and always have been–fascinated by vampire stuff.

And that “crazy reason” is this: Vampires seduce women with an element of “danger” that NO woman wants in REAL life, but which EVERY WOMAN fantasizes about.

I personally think it’s that latent “naughty” side of a woman that brings this fantasy out.

“Forbidden love” is a HUGE theme in women’s romance novels and the like, right? This is just another (albeit pretty twisted) version of all that.

So try this. Walk up behind her, grab her by the shoulders and simply wrap your teeth softly around that muscle that extends from her neck to her shoulder.

More precisely, I’m talking about the Trapezius muscle if you want to get technical, but you probably don’t.

What you want to do is just get into position to bite, WITHOUT biting.

When she giggles with anticipatory pleasure, THAT’S when you give her the world’s softest bite.

But don’t be surprised when she wants you to bite harder. I’m serious.

“Turn Her On” Tip No. 3 => Whisper In Her Ear

OK, so we’re already well acquainted with the fact that women love for you to bring out their “naughty” side.

And sure, you could simply tell her whatever’s on your mind as far as what you have “planned” for the two of you to engage in together. But NOTHING truly ramps up genuine, bona fide naughtiness like SECRECY.

Welcome to why sending sexual “zingers” via text message when she’s in the middle of a board meeting is so thrilling for her.

In large part, it’s because NOBODY ELSE KNOWS about it. It’s just between the two of you.

Whispering in a woman’s ear has exactly that same effect.

Although whispering “naughty nothings” in her ear is especially potent when you’re around a group of other people, there’s no rule that says you can’t do so in the privacy of your own home instead.

It’ll still work magnificently, in part because it’ll still FEEL like a secret to her…which will register as decidedly playful considering nobody else is around.

Besides, there’s something that’s just flat-out sensual about hearing someone else’s voice so close up. It just sends a tingle up your spine, right?

“Turn Her On” Tip No.4) Trace Her Profile

No, no. I don’t mean run a background check on her or make sure she’s canceled her Match.com account.

What I’m talking about here is actually one of the most simple but overlooked maneuvers you can imagine.

While kissing her, or right before you’re ABOUT to kiss her, simply lift your gaze to the top of her forehead (or keep looking in her eyes, your choice) and softly trace the tip of your forefinger downward from the top of her forehead, over the bridge of her nose, and down to her chin.

What you’re looking for here is for her to bite your finger at the precisely appropriate moment. Outstanding.

“Turn Her On” Tip No. 5 => Bite Her Lip

The next time you kiss her, why make it the same old boring lip lock?

Instead, softly bite her top lip and HOLD IT for a brief second. Then turn your head to the other side and continue.

There’s just this hint of deeper passionate intent that finds its way to the surface when you do that.

She’ll read that sign like the morning news, gentlemen. And she’ll LIKE the message you’re sending.

By the way, if she actually bites YOUR lip first you can consider that “permission” to step things up a notch.

In fact, you already know that when a woman bites her lip softly while interacting with you in ANY way (even conversation) that you usually feel something move in your boxers.

That’s because it’s a universal signal of imminent sexual desire. You gotta love it.

“Turn Her On” Tip No. 6 => Inhale Her Exhale

Here’s another particularly brilliant move you can make while kissing her.

Obviously, the “ram your tongue down her throat” style is much maligned by 100% of women out there.

This is not only because it telegraphs a decidedly overeager sense of desperation, it’s because it flat-out lacks finesse, dude.

Granted, we’re men here, so “finesse” can seem like an evil word.

“Finesse” defenses may not win NFL championships, but I’m telling you that finesse when it comes to kissing a woman will make you a champion in a woman’s eyes.

Kissing is as much a spiritual act as a physical act, assuming you’re doing it right and getting the most out of it.

Have you ever heard a woman say she believes kissing is more intimate than sex? That sounds preposterous, but there could be something to it.

So what could be more intimate than literally sharing each other’s breath?

Try inhaling her exhale as you kiss.

She’ll instinctively know what you’re doing and it’ll create this almost supernatural connection between you. There’s a synchronicity there that’s unmistakable. It’s really amazing.

In fact, did you know that the ancient Greek word for “breath” is actually a very close variant of the word for “soul”? I think those guys knew what they were talking about.

Breathe in a woman’s exhale and her soul sort of becomes part of you in the moment…literally.

I have to tell you, I took particular enjoyment in writing this all down for you.

You probably noticed that the six ideas I included aren’t necessarily the OBVIOUS choices.

Yeah, yeah. You can start pillow fights, tickle each other, grab a handful of hair while kissing her and/or give her a foot massage. But all of those have been written about enough by both myself and others.

This list, on the other hand, has been devoted to sharing “secret” moves.

Not to say “original”, because for every bullet point above it’s likely that at least five of you are going to e-mail me saying you’ve been doing that for years (and with great success, I’m sure).

If, however, at least a few of these have caused a “light bulb” to go on for you, by all means give them a try…and soon. And hey, if all of this talk about getting women frisky has inspired YOU, why not dream up a few “secret moves” of your own?