There are several key questions that should be considered in your grief healing discipline:
1- How Is Your Grief Healing Discipline?
At this time of your unwanted grief, sorrow, and loss how is your grief healing discipline?
“Self-disciplined begins with the mastery of your thoughts. If you don’t control what you think, you can’t control what you do. Simply, self-discipline enables you to think first and act afterward.”
~ Napoleon Hill
You are your best advocate or your worst enemy. Recognize you can harm yourself by your unguarded unchecked negative thoughts. Conversely, a positive healing discipline can be your best empowering partner.
2- What Do You Think?
Let’s be honest. Life has its ups and downs. It has its hardships.
“A happy life consists not in the absence, but in the mastery of hardships.”
~ Helen Keller
As you think about your deepest grief and sorrow it is a high priority to guard against harmful disengaging thoughts.
“What we think, we become. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.”
~ The Buddha
Your quiet, your loud, your secret, your private thoughts and how you let them effect your actions determine the long term lasting you.
“A man is but the product of his thoughts – what he thinks, he becomes.”
~ Mohandas (Mahatma) Gandhi
What are your life goals? Do your thoughts guide you and maintain your direction beneficially to heal from your grieving?
“We each have a sixth sense that is attuned to the oneness dimension in life, providing a means for us to guide our lives in accord with our ideas.”
~ Henry Reed
Have you taken the time to evaluate how your thoughts control your life for the bad or the good? Do you need to consider an immediate self-thought upgrade?
3- What Are Your Questions To The Cheshire Cat?
“One day Alice came to a fork in the road and saw a Cheshire cat in a tree. “Which road do I take?” she asked. His response was a question: “Where do you want to go?” “I don’t know,” Alice answered. “Then,” said the cat, “it doesn’t matter.”
~ Lewis Carroll
Which grief healing road will you take? Your life is different if you know the healing road you will choose and what is deeply important. Then to keep the canvas your thoughts have painted clearly in mind is highly relevant to your healing. This enables you to manage your actions daily and do what really matters most.
4- When Will You Begin?
The answer is always “NOW!”
Winnie the Pooh underscores an essential understanding you should embrace:
“You’re braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.” ~ Winnie the Pooh
Embracing Winnie Pooh’s thoughts that you are in fact braver, stronger, and smarter than you imagined in your troubled time of grief and loss is essential to help you to start healing. In your inner self are undiscovered empowerments that you can draw upon. Believe, imagine, and think about your personal abilities to reconcile your sorrow and regain happiness and peace. Your utmost efforts should be to stop grieving and start healing. Within you are unused courage, tougher, and keener strengths that are unique to you. You can draw upon them. Search for them – BEGIN NOW!
