It took you such a long time to find the woman of your dreams and you were the luckiest man the moment she agreed to marry you. However, marriage is tough and there are times wherein you two cannot just seem to work things out.
Some men usually ask the question of how to win or get their ex-wife back, especially after she has left home. This is complicated as you cannot just say sorry and expect her to come home. There are some ways that you can do in which you can slowly get your wife back:
Give her the time she needs.
Let your wife have some time alone, without you around. Give her time and space to think things through, and to cool down from all the anger. Give her as much time as she needs and be there when she is ready to talk.
Apologize first, more than anything.
The first thing that should come out of your mouth is that you are sorry. Apologize for everything, especially for all the things you both have been going through lately. Make her realize that you no longer want the shouting and anger.
One more chance.
You are lucky if your wife is willing to take you back right away but if she is hesitant, tell her to just give you one more chance. This time, do not waste the chance she offered you. Do all things possible with this chance.
Ask her to work things out.
It is not enough for you to do all the work. Talk some sense into her and ask her to try to work things out on her level. With both of you working for your marriage, it is impossible for things to remain the same as before.
Swear and be true to that promise.
Give her a list of promises that you wholeheartedly will keep. When you make a promise, mean it. Do not just make it for the sake of winning her back.
Woo her everyday.
No woman will be able to ignore a man who courts her every day. You do not have to give her gifts and expensive things every single day. Just telling how much you love her every moment you can, will keep the fire and the love going. You don’t have to be ashamed if you sound cheesy.
Be faithful, patient, loving.
In other words, be the person you have not been for a long time. These qualities are what an ideal husband possesses. Even if you find these difficult to express, do not stop in trying every hour of everyday until the love you had years ago comes back again.
