It can be very hard to accept the fact that your marriage is in trouble. It’s especially harder if your husband leaves you and the separation is not mutual. If you still feel that you need to give your marriage another shot and want to get your husband back here is what you need to do
Get a grip
Of course you will be upset, sad, disappointed and feeling awful but you have to get a grip. Don’t take this walking out as final. Believe that you can make your relationship work. Work on the power of positive thinking as that is one thing that you will need the most at an hour like this.
Don’t let yourself go
A lot of women just let themselves go when their husbands walk out on them. Sometimes they let themselves go even before the husband walks out and this is also one of the main causes of husbands straying. Hold on to the way you looked when he first met you. Use this time to look better. Indulge in some retail therapy to feel good and boost your confidence.
Don’t be reactive
You should brace yourself for times when you will bump into your husband. Since you both will be sharing friends it is not impossible to run into each other. Avoiding all gatherings is not a good idea and reacting unfavorably is worse. Don’t create a scene in front of all. Be cool and you will have your husbands’ attention.
Focus on reorganizing your life
Make your husband see that you have a lot more to your life than just him. Take all the negative energy that you have and divert it into reconstructing your life. When your husband sees that you are easily replacing him with work and other activities he is going to want to talk to you again.
Shake him up a little
Look like you are ready to accept his decision. Start going out with your friends and look like you are completely enjoying your life. It would also help if you look like you are ready to start dating. Your husband will wake up from his slumber and will begin to take notice if you.
Extend the olive branch
Let some time pass and extend the olive branch to your husband. Let him see the goodness in you. Don’t push for a relationship, just be friends. Spend some time together and enjoy yourself. Your husband will soon be able to see his mistakes.
Go to counseling
Once he feels you should get back together go for counseling. Address your marital issues with objectivity and work hard towards remaining a happily married couple.
