Are You Lacking Self-Discipline? – Part 1

A man does not live until he begins to discipline himself;

he merely exists. Like an animal he gratifies his desires

and pursues his inclinations just where they may lead him.

He is happy as a beast is happy, because he is not conscious

of what he is depriving himself; he suffers as the beast

suffers, because he does not know the way out of suffering.

He does not intelligently reflect upon life, and lives in a

series of sensations, longings, and confused memories which

are unrelated to any central idea or principle. A man whose

inner life is so ungoverned and chaotic must necessarily

manifest this confusion in the visible conditions of his

outer life in the world; and though for a time, running with

the stream of his desires, he may draw to himself a more or

less large share of the outer necessities and comforts of

life, he never achieves any real success nor accomplishes

any real good, and sooner or later wordly failure and

disaster are inevitable, as the direct result of the inward

failure to properly adjust and regulate those mental forces

which make the outer life.

Before a man accomplish anything of an enduring nature in

the world he must first of all acquire some measure of

success in the management of his own mind. This is as

mathematical a truism as that two and two are four, for,

“out of the heart are the issues of life.” If a man cannot

govern the forces within himself, he cannot hold a firm

hand upon the outer activities which form his visible life.

On the other hand, as a man succeeds, in governing himself

he rises to higher and higher levels of power and usefulness

and success in the world. The only difference between the

life of the beast and that of the undisciplined man is that

the man has a wider variety of desires, and experiences a

greater intensity of suffering. It may be said of such a man

that he is dead, being truly dead to self-control, chastity,

fortitude, and all the nobler qualities which constitute

life. In the consciousness of such a man the crucified Christ

ies entombed, awaiting that resurrection which shall revivify

the mortal sufferer, and wake him up to a knowledge of tha

realities of his existence.

With the practice of self-discipline a man begins to live,

for he then commences to rise above the inward confusion

and to adjust his conduct to a steadfast centre within

himself. He ceases to follow where inclination leads him,

reins in the steed of his desires, and lives in accordance

with the dictates of reason and wisdom. Hitherto his life

has been without purpose or meaning, but now he begins to

consciously mould his own destiny; he is “clothed and in

his right mind.”

In the process of self-discipline there are three stages

namely;

1. Control

2. Purification

3. Relinquishment

A man begins to discipline himself by controlling those

passions which have hitherto controlled him; he resists

temptation and guards himself against all those tendencies

to selfish gratifications which are so easy and natural,

and which have formerly dominated him. He brings his

appetite into subjection, and begins to eat as a reasonable

and responsible being, practising moderation and

thoughtfulness in the selection of his food, with the

object of making his body a pure instrument through which

he may live and act as becomes a man, and no longer

degrading that body by pandering to gustatory pleasure. He

puts a check upon his tongue, his temper, and, in fact, his

every animal desire and tendency, and this he does by

referring all his acts to a fixed centre within himself.

It is a process of living from within outward, instead of,

as formerly, from without inward. He conceives of an ideal,

and, enshrining that ideal in the sacred recesses of his

heart, he regulates his conduct in accordance with its

exaction and demands.

There is a philosophical hypothesis that at the heart of

every atom and every aggregation of atoms in the universe

there is a motionless center which is the sustaining source

of all the universal activities. Be this as it may, there

is certainly in the heart of every man and woman a selfless

centre without which the outer man could not be, and the

ignoring of which leads to suffering and confusion. This

selfless center which takes the form, in the mind, of an

ideal of unselfishness and spotless purity, the attainment

of which is desirable, is man’s eternal refuge from the

storms of passion and all the conflicting elements of his

lower nature. It is the Rock of Ages, the Christ within,

the divine and immortal in all men.

End of part 1. Part 2 coming soon…

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